I want a genuine sugar daddy/ sugar baby lifestyle sha239969: Why is it so hard to find a man who is willing to spoil me… give me an allowance and I will give him attention and affection… I am open minded and adventurous… I work hard to get by I want to be pampered once in a while… I am often told I am “beautiful “ and “attractive “ I guess not enough to be shown the finer things in life… what’s wrong with me…?🥺 sha239969: You are missing the point… men want us to do our part as women but they don’t want to do their part as man… most men are broke…  Jonah_Kyle: It's simple why it's hard to find a man to "spoil you"...it's because men want to be involved with a woman for more than a physical relationship, for the most part. It's beyond superficial looks and tingle time in the bed, in other words. They want someone not to lavish stuff upon, but to interact as a mate and partner. Unfortunately, hypergamy in the social media age has skewed relationships, where now any woman from 16-29 feels that she deserves a man who can give her hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of stuff (throughout all those years). And therein lies the hypergamy trap: ONCE a woman hits 30, her "shelf life" for being "spoiled" has severely dropped. In addition, her "value" has significantly dropped to being a mate for a competent man, and only available for "practice." So there's that as well. Just to be clear: a sugar daddy is nothing more than a "john" while the girl he's "spoiling" is actually nothing more than a nice looking, young "hoar" (homonym of the correct word). If that's what you value your worth, that's fine; it's a free country (somewhat). But rather than use your looks for being spoiled, spend more time on self-improvement from an intellectual and emotional side. Understand that between 22 and 27, if you stay healthy and beautiful, using your intellect and improved social skills can help you find that intelligent, handsome, financially secure, competent man who won't just "spoil" you but to mate with you. And you can "lock in" that man far easier than a man can "lock in" a beautiful woman. Just to be clear: Men on Wire, for the most part, are not looking for immediate tingles in the bed (you know the three letter word than starts with "s" and ends with "x"). They ACHE for someone to befriend and to mate and to be exclusive with. So you already have that advantage. But the sugar daddy phenomenon is not likely to net you more than occasional free trips and small vacations; certainly not the multi-thousand dollar payouts that you think your looks are worth.  Sexyfindombbw: I completely agree with you! I’ve been looking for so long and all I find are scammers and liars  AJ Cali: "You are missing the point… men want us to do our part as women but they don’t want to do their part as man… most men are broke" Curious - what is the specifics of who does what part and what are those parts exactly? Your definition is too vague to respond to with out context.  Karmaquence80: No honestly you're missing the point. It's not your partners job in life to spoil you with things and an extravagant lifestyle. If you want that you should work on getting it for yourself--but that shouldn't be an expectation you want from a partner. Even if you find the type of situation you want--odds are you're going to discover its not all its cracked up to be or there will be some element lacking that makes you regret it-because you've focused on the wrong things from trying to obtain a partner. Which means you won't want to be in that situation long term anyway and you're sure to get hurt or hurt someone else which isn't really fair to you or someone else. You'd be better off focusing on making a true connection with someone that shares your values, hopes, dreams, standards, long term outlooks on life, and things that actually do matter in finding someone. When spend so much time and focus on someone's financial situation as the key determining factor in getting to know someone--you're doing yourself and them a disservice because it says you only care about the material things in life and most men aren't going to want someone that only cares about that. Because here is the thing, if the money suddenly stops you're going to want to move on so if your affection is tied to a dollar amount then it says a lot about you as a person because most people are going to want something that goes past a superficial level. Wanting the finer things in life isn't a bad thing by any means--but choosing to focus so heavily on them with no regard for true things that do matter is going to leave people believing you are shallow and vapid and not out for true honest authentic connections as a human being. You do you, but I don't want to be that kind of person whether I'm rich, poor or anything in between. |
