Into Traps SavannahGuy: Never been with a guy before in my life. Just met a younger person and was very into her/him before I knew their secret. I am admittedly at a bit of a loss. My mind is racing. Anyone have similar experience, advice, help? MsEcho_Yup: If you refer to this person as a 'trap' you are probably not mature or respectful enough to be with them. You are talking about a person. For their part, honesty is the best policy. SavannahGuy: When I asked her that is how she identified her lifestyle to me. I had never heard the term prior to meeting this person. While i appreciate what it is you are trying to say, I believe you made a judgement without seeking understanding. |