Is it wrong to like older men? PetiteLoli: Even since I was 12 I've had a interest in older men. Not just like "Oh they're so cool" but rather "Wow he's really attractive". I use to think that there was something wrong with me for liking older men better than guys my age. I've come to terms with it now. To me it's normal, but I want to know what other people think. Also I'm sorry if my typing is bad. Gio_I: An age is just a number,if you're attracted to that person then go for it. My ex was way younger then me but we broke up cause of her lies. If you have great communication and honesty then any relationship/friendship/FWB will always work.Most Important thing is to be happy and have fun and enjoy. beinygirl: You are not odd, in fact your are perfectly normal!! Just remember age is only a number hun.....if you are happy then that is all that matters. Don't worry what everyone else thinks. My boyfriend is 15 yrs older than me and I see no issues with it nor does he. Now if you were to ask others in our circle of family & friends they may disagree and say yes there are issues with it but honestly I don't care what others think, they aren't the ones living my life. So just be happy, be yourself and don't let others tell you what is wrong or right...... Hatman20: There's actually a specific reason for this. On average, females tend to be more mature for their age than males. So, females who like older men don't necessarily like them because they're not on par in age, but because they ARE on par in maturity. Frankly, I like girls who like older men because usually it says something about them, like maybe they aren't only interested in the shiny 6 pack jocks with no personality most girls my age fall for.
uglycow10: To Petite: I always felt the same way as a kid. However, I think that it is just a stage and that it is quite normal . As an adult I did date someone 28 years my senior, and it was initially exciting until I realized that he was stuck in his wYs and as he got older he was not willing to do the things that young people do... And he was very jealous especially when the men my age were sniffing around...and they always were.!!!! suchmary: i am 35 only date older men they are more into young women then the younger fellows i think uglycow10: That's true....it is not every woman who can cope with the habits of older men. it' s novel at first, but once you realize that they actually have to make an effort to keep up with you....it gets kinda old. When they dont want to hang out, go to the gym, a rowdy concert, and a myriad of other things.....you might want to re-think dating an older man. Of vourse in the case of an old geyer who is filthy rich, most women tend to "stay in love", once the money and goodies keep flowing in......just my opinion uglycow10: Once was enough for me! Even in the chat rooms I find most of the older men (not all).... Most., to lack chat skills and to be quite boring... And frankly I was quite disappointed! The younger guys are daring,invigorating, and curious... Willing to chat about anything. I am totally not ready for the geriatric crowd.....not yet! uglycow10: not at all! Old dudes are just not my cuppa tea! I tried it and it was ok , as a new experience...but it's not for me. Didderent strokes for different folks! lonsomelouser: this is one to leave up too the two in question its a preferaunce thing . at least as long as the differance in age is with in reasion classybbw: there is nothing wrong with liking or daiting older men. my ex bf was 55 yrs old and i say if ya like older men then go for it donaldwilson396: My hubby tells me to screw as many older guys as I can....oldest ever was 60...yummy |