Beware of your WANTS, your DESIRES, your FANTASIES junyabee: The symbols and signals we use to be the driver of our thoughts and is consequential operations are the physiological substances with which we abuse ourselves junyabee: Harpo Monk IF this is purgatory forge in which in our self-realization, we choose and mold the template for our next incarnation, and that ALL that happens, the good or the horrific, is just the challenge to our cognitive discipline for coherency and logic for that transcendence.. lonsomelouser: these wants desires and fantasie can couse problums for one. but at the same time add spice to sertan parts of life. in part it depends on just how deeply one allows their self to become sumarged. . And being honest every one has fantasie"s desires and wants if you can get them to admit too it or not. . one must be carefull too whom one admits these or with wh one has sertan discoushions junyabee: @lonsomelouser, @suchmary Because people have blind spots both cognitively and emotionally these figurative substance abuses carry on mostly as natural a medium as water is to an aquatic creature. Even the dishonesty of denial for irrational to venal reasons compounds the addictive abuse of thoughts and mental predispositions as any junkie gets when they are in the depths of their addiction.. It's the presumed and the consensual that chains us more than the adverse to which we have some awareness junyabee@gmail.com junyabee: Real sin is betraying or selling out your soul.. I think the sin you're alluding to are the pleasures that go beyond the conventional social rules stimulation.. That's not sin but feeling your life in your body than repressing it jkent99: I Need To Get Married I'm 36 Years Old Witch Is The Reason Why I'm Desperate Now. I Want To Be In Hollywood To Be An Actor And A Singer My Fantasies Are Walking On The Beach With My Wife To Be With Our Children Playing In The By The Water. junyabee: @destiny1961 My 'explorations' into things have taken me to quite the number of rabbit holes; some were quite serendipitous for me junyabee: @savriva69 My eyes were opened by my incidental encounters as I pursued my eclectic interests... Some surprising.. Some jaw dropping astonishing... ALL gave me a more broad-minded view of how people can be and make it in their own idiosyncratic ways quite resilient in their self-reliance Cameerond: Heck me an my wife fantasy was for her to be with a BBC an it wasn’t to bad she enjoyed it an it hurt for her but all in all we’re still strong junyabee: Fantasies, even the most stimulating and reviving, without a qualifying discernment, can be a rabbit-hole leading you out into a figurative, if not literal dead-end alphabull58: desires have a way of haunting you. that's why many men have them later in life. they know time is running out |