Online love & relationships
katie8219: I am sure this topic has came up before, but i'm curious if anyone has found love online or has a strong online relationship?
Xx Cookie Monster xX: i have had a few online relationships and never had much luck, but their is always one time i will succeed and walk away with my beautiful lady on my arm and smile knowing patience is worth while
katie8219: I had a serious ( or so I thought ) online relationship once. We talked everyday and the love was so strong. Distance was never a problem for me, I believe if you love someone you will be with them in time. After about 3 months I get a message one day from a woman asking me if I enjoyed talking to her husband. I was devistated to say the least. I guess that's why I keep my guard up being careful who I let into my life. After everything calmed down I looked at our relationship & should have seen it. Love indeed is blinding!!!!!! I have started to open my heart up to someone very special. I just want him to understand why I at times may seem distant, but i'm so much in love with him. He has made me see things in a different way. I think what I love about our relationship is we was friends 1st. I you smoochie
katie8219: Thanx countrydoll.......I will admit I am still a bit nervous, but I am going to take it a day at a time
Mountain Momma: T/they say the brain is the most erotic organ in the body. Which is why online relationships are so intense. Because its not physical. Not to say that its not sexual, its just not physical. W/we are drawn in mentally and emotionally. Our relationships here offer an anonymity that W/we aren't afforded in real life. O/our imaginations allow us to know no limits...to explore things never attempted otherwise. I have a bond with Mountain Joe that I have not experienced elsewhere. I did have one other online relationship before Him, however, we too quickly moved the relationship offline...which was the beginning of the end.
That's not to say that I will never have a real life relationship....only that this relationship is meeting my needs in a way that I have not experienced in real life. Is it because it is online or because its Mountain Joe? Only time will bear out that answer. For right now....its both.
(Edited by Mountain Momma)
katie8219: cabingirl you are so right. I told you who my online relationship is with and he really does make me feel happy. As crazy it may sound, I can be in a chatroom and as long as he is with me, I feel completly safe. He brings so much into my life and I am so greatful I became his friend 1st. I will admit, I do have trust issues, but he has given me alot to think about and is helping me through the issues. I guess time will be for us or against us, but I am very optomistic
somewherepurple: Several. Some became IRL. Some stayed online. Now I'm married, so looking for online only.
LuckyLuckyMe: my son met his wife in a chatroom 17 years ago, he's from england, she from america, they met a few times, he moved to america, they married and have been together now for 14 yrs ... on the hand, I chatted to a lady for nearly 5 years before flying to meet her and discovering she was after money, plus I'm sure she was mentally unstable ...
missymichele6959: I have a new love in my life! We have a long-distance relationship, so we email each other several times a day! I met him in a chat room! And he agrees with me, it was love at first chat! Even though I am several years older than him! We will make this thing between us last!!!!!
Tmachy: I met this beautiful younger female 23 and we instantly hit it off. I felt like I knew her forever, saw rhe world the same way. We were physically attracted to each other , it was like someone took my ideal mate and I had found her. We talked constantly for a little less than a week, we both expressed the same emotions And concerns about life , us , everything. Then send i a message she gets but hasn't read it and I really felt upset about it. Im so glad a few posts back explains the mental only relationship and why there hard to handle when it is ended. Im going wait awhile and message her again with a matter of fact attitude of just seeing if she's doing ok. This is such a weird state of emotion, this is the first time ive been really bothered by it. There hasn't been any closure , but personally I dont blame her I am 37, she has so much living to do she doesn't need a old guy whos already experienced allot on his own. I feel like im never meet that person who makes me complete sometimes, like im destine to die alone. But its better than settling for someone and dying miserable way I see it.