ever feel afraid and alone? Trail_7: for example when you don't have any community you interact with regularly and then you just get scared or when something someone did triggers you and reminds you of your predicament and then makes you feel afraid and alone? I don't really know any coping strategies other than what seems like self soothing and a dash of spirituality to help ease the suffering. It just makes me so vulnerable - like a little child that needs her mom. My mom was so nurturing that when I had my mom as a child and into my teenage years I lost the strong negative feelings I had as a young child. Some people told me I am like my mom but even if that is the case I can not prevent my own fears from coming on. Actually, when I was a teenager I also liked to go into chatrooms-and one time someone name called me and it really hurt me but my mom told me to go off that place and not talk to that person - which seemed to protect me. As an adult I don't set such drastic limits-sometimes these things happen after a long time of someone being kind to me too, or other times it happens on and off. I don't want to discourage anyone and or make them feel hurt and weak. I am just trying to do some possible self help for myself. I think this post could also be in the self help section. Last night it got to the point of my belly hurting - from the emotions but the pain went away. (Edited by Trail_7) Trail_7: To the person who asked what made me create the chatroom of this name: my feelings and thoughts made me create this group or rather propelled me to plus relating to others might be helpful. My past social worker told me it is good to be with people who are going through the same thing as me such as personality trauma wise he was referring to that time, basically. He had suggested I join an online group with good reviews. (Edited by Trail_7)  redrose02: At times I feel afraid and or alone. Then I turn to God for a deep conversation and I automatically feel loved and know God is there for me. God will never forsake us like our friends and family do at times .  gingertreegirl: Trail 7 : You write a little bit like someone I know , and have been communicating with on line one on one for over 10 years . who approached me in the private Chat on aol after seeing me type in Mental Health Chat Room on Aol , with some One else , over 10 Years ago . After Aol That Person disappeared for about 3 Years and i thought perhaps they found a good Therapist or a helpful patient Partner . I am trying to find as Chat Room or online Self Help Group , that Person might at least feel comfortable with to even just read along or perhaps get the courage to communicate in Self help Setting , when that Person is able to write as any other Adult . Are You posting what You have written here in the Self Help section ? Or a different Group or Room ? My Friend actually has a Profile on Wire but has been way too anxious and shy to ever post anything in a Room or Group . i can not seem to scroll back to Your first Post, perhaps because i use a Phone Version of Wire Chat . Trail_7: I am not sure what you mean by the self help section, if you care to clarify but i presume it is another forum on here. I posted sometimes under Health but it would not have been me repeating the same thing I wrote here in other places. I don't think. If anything it could have been similar - as in also feelings being brought up. (Edited by Trail_7) gingertreegirl: Thank You for responding ! Sorry for the confusion , it was my mistake .YES I was initially under " Forums " where i read Your Post i think part of what You posted there was " as in feelings being brought up , but i am not sure and later i saw Your Profile , Not sure if that clears anything up . I think i probably need to look specifically for a website for People who have this complicated Disorder " DID " and i am NOT implying that all Mental Health Issues or lack of Well Being can not be complicated and deserve the sane kind of attention . I have not been on Wire much for quite s while for various reasons . i think something You wrote reminded me of my Friend . Sorry if i caused confusion over venues . But if log in i will lock if i see you in a chat room and say " hi " Meanwhile wishing You well ! 🤞💞 | Health Chat Room Similar Conversations |