Avoidance Qoot5: If a guy I work with goes out of his way to avoid me, even changing his schedule so that we dont work the same time, what could be the reason. He is someone I have always not spoken to. His gf use to work with us. But she doesnt anymore for the past 2 years. LoisS: So you have always NOT spoken to him. Yet you noticed that he changed his schedule and that he goes out of his way to avoid you.? Why do you care if you dont talk to him? Qoot5: No. I think I was the only one who wasnt attracted to him from the start. The other women were vocal about how they liked him. He told other people that I didnt like him. Motati: LoisS's question is so appropriate. Then why do you care? Unless there's something that you are not telling. LoisS: Someone you dont find attractive yet you are noticing their every move? What about his Girlfriend? fritan: Maybe he noticed that you weren't speaking to him, and he started avoiding you because he thought you were shunning him. Or maybe it's coincidence. Definenormal: Maybe he's avoiding you because his GF told him to. What was your working relationship like with her when she was there? Perhaps she perceives you as a potential threat? Qoot5: She didnt like me after she use to be nice to me. Especially when he came on the scene, she became obsessesed with me not talking to hin. He was our boss. funcoffeelover: I don't think that there is enough info... Maybe you said something that he didn't like (guessing)... Maybe he is worried about something he said... triphammer1173: Perhaps.. He left because he felt something might happen with either you or someone in the office and he decided to go before anything inappropriate took place. Qoot5: The consistency. and if he can't change his schedule to avoid me, he changes mine in the computer after its been set. And it always ends up the same. This has been happening for years. g A b r i e l l A: Hi girl, question: is he accommodating his schedule and yours too avoid each other since his girlfriend stopped working there? ruphisleaking: maybe.... 1. he doesnt like your work 2. he was told something about you, doesnt matter if its true or not 3. he's a dick 4. he asked why you avoided him and his gf told him some bullshit about you instead of admitting it was partly her fault 5. all of the above | Dating Chat Room 1 Person Chatting Similar Conversations |