Sexless Marriages (Page 2)

deacon7771: "Palmela Handerson" or "Rosie Palms"

deacon7771: angeleyes, I think that even if the "ohiowhitesnake" is not working, anyone - man or woman, needs to caress, hug, kiss and love the person they love. If your hubby still loves you deep down like you say, he would be holding you, and if his sex drive is gone, then his desire for holding and such should be increasing, not decreasing.

Fog Swept Glade: They say I knew one girl but she was very cold. I thought she had an agenda. The other one that reminded me of her was framed, I think. Very sad subject for me. I‘m pleased anything from her was killed.

Motati: That sounds like a good plan. It will be interesting to know how many spouses/partners will be content with that plan.

rhym_boogie: Motati: I doubt many. My wife can be encouraged to cuddle for a while, but the empathetic touch that used to be there--on both giving and receiving end--just isn't there. We get along great in every other way. Her attitude, which she will never come out and say, seems to be "We had a good run, I'm not feeling it in any way now, and you should just be happy with what we had--which was great. My capacity has diminished with age, but it's not just disappeared. I can't run sub five minute miles anymore, either, but I still love to run. I get massages just to feel someone's hands warm on my skin. And no, not HE massages because I won't spend "our" money on that.

Motati: uuuh! That's sweet rhym-boogie.

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introvertedgurl: Unfortunately yes. Almost sexless anyway.

Motati: More especially if they suspect that they are wanted as sex objects only.

Angry Beaver: My wife was a sex object...I'd ask for sex, she'd object

Thisone1: I find sex outside of marriage, it keeps my marriage alive

Motati: Hahahhahahahahahahaha! Yes Angry, you always have a funny way of saying things.

Fog Swept Glade: They just call that strategy.

HoneyBeeHugz: Hello im sorry too all who are in one or have been in one i do understand that lonely feeling

guy54: Love is more than sex. Ask any couple who have been together with each other for long time. Only mutual love and kindness can sustain a relationship. This includes giving up sex if the other partner doesnt feel like it or doing little only what he/she is comfortable with. If his/her sex drive is gone, that should not be a reason for him/her not to kiss,cuddle and spend as much time for their partner. If sex is the only reason you look forward to your partner every time, then you will never be satisfied and always remain unhappy until you get it everytime from whomever or whatever.

Motati: Yes guy, so so true.

hornchurchmale: not had sex for years but we get on fine. holidays. life etc goes on with no squabbles but wife just went of me sexually. says too old .never sure she meant herself or me!

Motati: That's sweet. She most probably meant for both of you.

hornchurchmale: I think she no longer sees me a sexually attractive etc and says she is happy not having sex so thats what occurs. no comment form my side about still finding wife sexually attractive but you cannot force oneself . all about respect etc

Motati: Maybe she thinks that you have done enough of it, now it's time for you just to be in love and enjoy each other's company. What is great is that you are still deeply in love. I often wonder when people stop loving each other because they don't have sex anymore.

hornchurchmale: still miss it but I guess will have to live with it or rather without.

LoisS: One isnt interested and the other is. So you just live with that because, you know, why not ....Sounds unhappy.