Dating married sisters

prof351: Here's the situation, we're all married, we've all been married to our current partner for at least 30 years. The indication I get from both sisters is that they would "like to spread their wings" a bit.

We're all very fit and we met at the gym. My dilemma is which sister to ask out and how do I know I'm asking the right one? I'd hate to find out I screwed it up by asking the wrong one.

Any constructive advice is appreciated. Thanks

LoisS: Im sure many men have this problem....Choose wisely.

prof351: Thanks, just chatting about it helps me figure things out a bit. Do you have any thoughts to share?

LoisS: How about, which ever one was giving you the most attention...ask her.

prof351: Lois, thanks. Good point. I think I'm going to ask Ann (other sister is Pam), Ann seems to be a very good listener, quick with a smile and more out going. Pam seems to be a bit of a gatekeeper, the first to start a conversation and say hello as soon as I see her. Ann seems to be a bit more intense and focused. Plus, I find Ann a bit more appealing. Both are beautiful, just an edge to Ann

Swimbikerun: Use eye contact to help you see who is the most open minded. Sometimes just a long stare can send a message and rather they return the look over . The gym a good place to see if they dress or act more sexual in dress or posture. Nature will guide you ask your manhood who gets you up.

prof351: Swimbikerun, thanks I like that advice.

juneroses50: agree with swim..the gym is a good place to dress sexy because lots of people do it...you'll know when and if the message has been received..this works.

prof351: Due to some family issues I haven't been able to move forward with the sisters. I've laid the ground work for a coffee date with one of the sisters. She seems to like the idea of getting together quite a bit. So we'll see where it goes.

WonderWoman1: How was your date?

prof351: Dating married women is a slow process. We've agreed to go for coffee, next is finding two times that work and hope one of them works for her. Hopefully we'll see each other Wednesday and work things out. Never rush a married woman. Plus, it gives her more time to think about it.

Swimbikerun: Depends on the married women

prof351: If it's a woman's first time exploring an open relationship, I think slow is better.

LoisS: Hope her husbands rifle isnt loaded.

Swimbikerun: Open is better

juneroses50: An open marriage or relationship means both partners agree. it's great but not for everyone.

Motati: I am a bit old fashioned and naive. I am not being judgemental, Can somebody please clarify this to me, if you are in any serious relationship what is it that you will be doing with another person?