When No One Shows Up Your Entire Life?

jasminalovely2000
jasminalovely2000: Positive Responses Only

You may wish upon a star. You might pray. You may even meditate on it. I do not accept pity of any sort, but strength is looked down upon by others. So much so, that no one shows up. We know the world is apathetic. Groups you may belong to say they will be there. But, no one shows up. When you ask, people fall out their chair, and still no one shows up. But, they blame you while secretly admiring you and hating you all at the same time and in same breath will lie about showing up. They can be there for others but for you, they will not show up, if they do it is a delayed response of having to beg. Tried to change it so many times, strangers are scary, no one wants to really have a conversation. Therefore, they really do not know you or try to get to know you and no one shows up. If they do, it is only when it is convenient for them. Not sure what to do, other than to continue to work on me. I know they will show up for my funeral or memorial service. I guess that is all that matters.
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deacon7771
deacon7771: "Become the change you seek." If you want people to want to be with you, you need to be the sort of person they want to be with. Myself, I DO NOT like most people and I really do prefer my own company, I am happy that most people don't intrude in my life. But if you are not like me, then I would advise you to CHANGE, change yourself in positive ways, lose excess weight, learn lots of new and interesting things, maybe learn a new language, take up an interesting hobby and really get GOOD at it... Learn to dance, I mean REALLY dance. Learn to play a musical instrument and get good at it. Become the interesting and charming person you would really like to spend time with.

I know that I myself am a bit of a snob, actually very picky about who I spend time with, I find most people incredibly dull and lazy minded - only interested in their own little things and not aware of or caring for anyone or anything else. So why would I ever want to waste my time with them?
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