You're shallow????????

irondominator: Recently had someone drop by my page and tell me I'm shallow. What motivates someone to go to someones page and attempt to insult them by namecalling? Does it make them feel better about themselves? I've never heard an attractive person label someone as shallow. We live in a liberal PC society that is "taught" (brainwashed) to believe other than what we are naturally born to believe in the name of "equality". They convince us that our natural instinct is wrong. This is utter nonsense. From the moment we are born until our indoctrination into this liberal society, we are naturally attracted to looks, whether it be a person, place or thing. A baby will smile and be happy if a good looking person smiles in its face. If that person is ugly, the baby will cry in terror. I've seen this so many times in life. Are we born shallow and these liberal "hero's" were needed to straightened us out? Hell no! We are not all equal. We are born equal to an extent, but where we go from there depends on what we value the most. Some people value their looks (I believe most do at least to some extent), some value knowledge and others value the taste of donuts.....we cater to what we value the most and then nature takes its course to turn us into a unique individual.

irondominator: Everyone should be content with what they look like. They should improve themselves in practical ways and become the best version of themselves; there is nothing to be ashamed of. If you are in good physical shape, it is not by accident. It is because you are disciplined to eat the right foods and workout hard. No one does this because they want to as they are sacrifices made; they do it because they want the result, to make themselves look better. If you want to look better to others, it's logical that the looks of others is important to you as well. That does not make you shallow. People buy a car because of how it looks. They will wash it, keep it clean and wax it and people will say they have class and show pride because of it as it should be. If you apply this same logic to your body (working out and eating healthy to be your best), then suddenly you are shallow and should be fit shamed? LOL I don't subscribe to this liberal garbage. If it were true, most of wireclub and other social media sites would be considered shallow. Would love to hear others opinions on this. Things like this I find very interesting and are worth discussing.

flamingred: society has gotten to be very materialistic , conceited and selfish. Commercials are all
produced with beautiful people whether it be toothpaste , or make up, giving younger people
the idea that they need to be beautiful and slim
There is a group who work to keep fit , watch what they eat , etc and they are more trying to
keep their body , in good shape for later years to still be healthy and mobile.
Most intelligent people can differentiate who is conceited about their looks and who are
just interested in keeping in shape.

Please take note I am talking in general , there is always those who do not fit the mould

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SillySally8: nature does not take its course iron...humans walk their own path.....to put such immense power into the word hot...(your words))) only shows who YOU are.....you are young though and not mature, you seem angry, im guessing a type A personality? when you can see into anothers eyes and heart with unselfish thoughts, feelings and love ...then and only then will you stop putting such pressure on yourself and others to be HOT....lets try to be kind

trust me you will go much further in life.....and btw? I dropped by your page to see who you presented yourself to be...after such drival and determination to put peoples looks above all else tells me something about who YOU are and I wasn't surprised ...just saying

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irondominator: @flamingred "Most intelligent people can differentiate who is conceited about their looks and who are just interested in keeping in shape."

How do you differentiate? Being conceited is not a binary attribute. Anyone who posts their pics on social media expecting to get likes and compliments has to be conceited to at least some extent. I mean you're basically asking strangers to evaluate you. Let's be honest. If they didn't get likes or they just got insults would they continue to post these selfies on their profile? Posting selfies for evaluation is narcissistic. There has been scientific studies that confirm this: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2017/04/170418094255.htm

I like to meet fit, tanned women. Does that make me shallow? It makes me picky, but not shallow. If I was out of shape and I expected to meet only fit women, that would make me a hypocrite; which is why I posted a picture of my physique. I'm looking for my equal. Does that make me shallow? Oh, and when I say meet women, I'm talking about actually meeting them in person (getting on a plane and flying out to them for a few days). I do not care for compliments or likes because to me, they don't mean anything unless I know these people personally. My pic is only there to show the women that I'm interested in meeting personally, the degree of fitness my body is at; that's all. I didn't post it for any other reason. Aside from who I will actually date, looks don't matter to me; I will treat everyone based on conduct and intelligence.

@Pauline35 Most intelligent people have an argument as opposed to an ad hominem attack. If you are only interested in insulting me, create a thread such as "Why I hate irondominator" and have at it. I will leave your comment up here as a warning to you or others that if there are more hollow insults made here, they will be deleted.