What are you looking for in a man? (Page 2)

kittybobo34: Most of us have some ideal image of the opposite sex though.

kittybobo34: I guess the extreme example would be the guy that has a foot fetish. He locked onto that trait every early in his life. I dont think it can be broken once its set ether.

Motati: So true Iowa, the formula is really simple, but most of the time we complicate issues.

Motati: I have seen that some men are attracted by women who look like their sisters or mothers. Some women are also attracted by men who look like their brothers or fathers. In both instances of course it will be influenced by the relationship that one has with the members of his/her family.

kittybobo34: for me it was my older brother, his hair and body type is an instant go signal for me.

iowagent1956: Hmmmm. . .is he chubby and balding? If not, I guess I'd be more of a stop light.

Motati: Huh?

WonderWoman1: Traits Im looking for a man is whether he may or may not borrow my skirt ,shoes and underwear.For example Superman and Batman are revered by everybody as the strongests of all male but believe it or not they are gayish because they constantly steal and wears my outfit.Batman steals my lasso and use it for his boyfriend.Superman on the otherhand struts with my skirt and shoes..They prefer WW's products especially my make up lines.They tested all this products before it goes out to the market..😎

iowagent1956: Motati I have to ask - what is an Australian koala doing in South Africa?

Motati: Good question.

Motati: Most probably looking for its long lost partner.

iowagent1956: Ah, I figured as much. Best of luck in finding another arboreal marsupial.

kittybobo34: Especially one that hangs out in chat forums!

iowagent1956: Yes, a challenge all around!

Motati: You never know where your luck lies.

Motati: Have you ever dated a selfish man who just takes without giving?

kittybobo34: Seems like there are allot of those out there.

iowagent1956: There are, and a number of women who do the same. Give and take - you give, they take.

Motati: True Iowa! It is not at all right for anybody to do that. However it is perceived as a norm for a man to give and a woman to take. mmmm! If you know what I mean.

iowagent1956: In a manner of speaking, I guess you'd have to call that a law of nature - kind of hard to get around.

Motati: Ok, I get your point.

iowagent1956: Other than that, I prefer a relationship that allows both to give generously and take graciously.

Motati: That's nice, very nice.

Motati: and where does this giving and taking normally happens, if i may ask?

iowagent1956: Anywhere within the context of a good relationship. From enjoying each others company, doing things together, sharing responsibilities, and of course, the bedroom