Why do men act distant after you spent such intimate times together?

mssexygirl27
mssexygirl27: I'm having a hard time right now dealing with my boyfriend's distant behavior.
Last week we spent Tuesday through Sunday together. He was going through a really hard time and he really needed me to be there for him. I spent all those days with him, helping him out, taking care of him. We spent a lot of good times together and very emotional moments as well. We were very intimate. I actually felt we got even closer after sharing such intimate moments.

But this week since Wednesday he's been acting a little distant with me. He hasn't called me as much or texted me as he usually does. He always texts me many times throughout the day. And at night we talk all the way until late late nights. I'm really missing him a lot right now. I feel hurt and confused and a little angry I suppose. Before I left to come back home last Sunday afternoon, he told me he needed a little bit of space. He said it has nothing to do with me. He said everything is fine with us. He just needs his space sometimes. After I got back home he called me and we talked for a while. He seemed fine and was very loveable. We had really good conversations for the next couple of nights. But since Wednesday night he's been acting a little distant again. He does this pulling away thing once in a while but this time I feel like it's taking him a little longer to get out of that funk.

How can a man be so intimate with his woman and then want his own space? After being so intimate I just want to be with him even more! What should I do? Just give him his space? By the way, he's divorced and has 2 young daughters. He told me today he's been spending the weekend with them. He doesn't see them as much as he would like to.

p.s.- We've been dating since 2013.
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Searchonglostfrndask
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perception1960
perception1960: Most guys are after one thing and once they get it they sometimes show their real selves.
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Searchonglostfrndask
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jordan2cu
jordan2cu: Ooo boys and their toys . It's comparable with girls and their shoes. You just get over that initial feeling of happiness and off you go
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Searchonglostfrndask
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Shy2
Shy2: Great comment Jordan & Perception ... both very true.
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Rob_in_MO
Rob_in_MO: I'd have to agree with perception1960. Looks like he was after one thing, and when he got it then it's time to move on for him. Although, you say he was going through some hard times. Maybe he is still going through that and not yet sure about what he wants etc? Hard to say when I don't know what the hard times are, but maybe he's still not sure about things....
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flamingred
flamingred: What perception said is mostly correct

Most guys are after one thing and once they get it they sometimes show their real selves.

But.. i would change sometimes to..nearly always

And men get upset if women use the same actions on them
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Metaverseguy
Metaverseguy: Hi you can measure distance using a simple physics formula D = v*t + (1/2)*a*t^2. Hope this helps!
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orgainizer42
orgainizer42: A man who does not want to be with the woman he has recently had sex with, is NOT attracted to her. A man will ALWAYS have sex, even if he isn't attracted to the female.
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flamingred
flamingred: Ain't that the truth!!! Lol
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perception1960
perception1960: If women had that behavior men would go out of their minds with the question Why are girls so bad.
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flamingred
flamingred: U don't think,that there are any woman that do have that behavior????
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perception1960
perception1960: Sure I do. I know a few but overall the balance of having sex and becoming disinterested is squarely in the males domain and attitude.
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flamingred
flamingred: a man would have sex with Ms Fugly, he would just put a bag over her head
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flamingred
flamingred: Men.. in general ... have not handled women properly and many men have no idea of their
partner's potential
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perception1960
perception1960: I would concur with that observation.
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jwkeisser
jwkeisser: unfortunately it sounds like your with a man that wanted one thing then when he got it, he no longer had the chase and sounds like he might have someone else but i don't know for sure that's something you really need to find out because the time you spend wondering about were you stand will only destroy you no matter how much you care for him. Do your home work try showing up unannounced at is home or ask to see his cell and see if there are messages or a number that you don't know, because if you can';t correct this it will only destroy you in long run
take this from someone been threw same thing only it was her,, if your gut tells you somethings not right, then your probably right and life to short to play games with someone else feeling and life.
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Idonthaveausername
Idonthaveausername: ^ piano you killed me. im dooooone son
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Mister62
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chaz1263
chaz1263: el gringo,s done the dirty on you is told you what you want two here and what he thinks will make you feel more secure then had is cake and gone let me guess ,i need more space sound familier shame on him some times kids come first or is he being honest with yoiu
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