Is there any decent guys out there? (Page 4) refurbwoodart: Well Lelo I thank you hun for your wishes I'm trying to start getting out again but I dint drink so bars are kinda a waste now,coffee shops well here it mostly college kids. Some are fun to talk to but they dint know what life is or what its like yet so thats out. There just isn't anywhere for people who dont drink to go to nee someone anymore. Since my accident I quit drinking because my neurologist told me alcohol can either hit me with three or four times the punch or it can just not effect me as much and if I can't drink a couple of beers and still be coherent and in control I just dont want to drink. Some people at my lodge say its just not normal for someone not to drink thats weird as hell. I asked really well how weird is it for someone to not have a drivers license because they drank one beer and get a DUI. They then changed their tune after one that worked there got a DUI and she lost her job because of it. So now she can't even find a job because one she can't drive,two her professional license because here you can't have a professional one with a DUI. So if your a lawyer and get a DUI you lose your barr license,if your a doctor you can't practice anymore,a plumber you can't pull permits anymore. They had a different view of it after that. Plus the fact that you have to pay $200a week and you have to call everyday to a testing facility to see if you have to go test for drugs and alcohol,and when you do have to go you have a 3 hour window to get there and it cost another $30 per test and you must get at least 2 test a week so thats $260 bucks a week you have to pay or you get a bench warrant placed on you. So they don't bug me about not drinking anymore.  srbiddy09: Just a quick grammar suggestion: The name of this forum should be "ARE there any decent guys out there?" YW refurbwoodart: Either or it could be singular as is but are could significantly declare it a question  flamingred: I think as a single person gets older we r used to our way of doing things and think we know what we want and over the years we form a definite Idea of the man or woman we want. So it gets more complex in the hunt lol Well I also could be full of horse bunnies But that is my opinion whatever it is worth refurbwoodart: Well red I think its our taste gets redefined and more specific and that limits our scope of range. I mean you know more what you want and that is what you pursue. Then when other opportunities come along well you nigh pass them by because you know somehow its just not right off the bat. flamingred: by the way, it is suppose to be horse bungies , typing error ,I am such a horrible typist  madhatter2018xdx: I'm good guy. Most of my friends are girls. I believe god made women for men treat them right and create life. I treat all women like goddesses. flamingred: well my idea of a decent man , is one who helps with cleaning and cooking and cooking together can be lots of fun and unique ,, if u have the mindset , a decent man wants to help with his mate and share life , not just have a free maid who gives blowjobs refurbwoodart: Isn't it so obvious when someone is so desperate they have to try and start something just for no reason at all. And that makes a lack of mental stability obvious as well. I means some people are just obsessed with simply being negative and aggressively defiant just to get attention. I guess its a good thing I dont relate to negative people. Especially when they are phishing to provoke something. refurbwoodart: But then again I'm not one to prevent those from proving they are an idiot and annoying everyone I think they should be allowed to prove it on their own. | Dating Chat Room Similar Conversations |
