Why is it so wrong to date someone who is married

Yo Mamas nightmare: Why do people think it is so wrong to date someone who is married? I really care for someone who is in a marrage of convenience. People say its wrong to be with someone who is married...I want to know why?

hzKitten: because its a christian world with christian standards. I am bisexual. I told my man.... if you are fucking and emotionally attached, behind my back and for just your own gratification It is wrong (your man should find a way out of his marriage unless they both agree and understand the marraige is out of convenience)

However, I also told my man, While I would love to have a threesome with myself, him, and another woman.... I am also very open to him having naughty secret fun..... if i want him to please and be pleased by another woman it is not cheating.

I dont know that anything will ever happen. But I give him free naughty time. When he works overnights and has time to sexually explore I encourage him to do so whether its online or a naughty girl sneaking in to his work and pleasing him it doesnt matter. I dont want to know and I dont ask. And there are other ways I give him naughty time when we are both home that he can either share with me or keep a naughty secret.

you and your man decide whats best for you. but being honest with his wife would be the right thing to do but that is his responsibility

shellyenglish80: Do you really need to ask that question? Do you know what adultery is? When you marry a couple make vows and commitment to each other, take vows. You are a homewrecker. Caring about no one but your own happiness. There is a wife and maybe children involved who are innocent. He might say it's a marriage of convenience but how do you know he isn't lying. He's cheating. Once a cheat always a cheat.

Aura: Oh dear....To be honest, how consenting adults arrange their relationship and/or marriage is none of anyone's business but the people involved. The problem here, which you probably saw coming, is "consenting adults" which frankly, you are not.
There is a huge power difference in this relationship due to life experience and commitment. And while it might not feel that way to you, you are being taken advantage of. It is never wrong to have feelings. But your partner is wrong for acting on these feelings and pursuing a relationship with someone who due to the phase of life they are in, can never be an equal.

ploxedits: Lol thats a fucking NO GO! (stupid question!!!)

Dreaming of Chelsea: If he or she is married and unhappy, and you bring happiness, thats a good thing. If he or she makes you happy too, then it is a great thing. Some will talk about the bible says this or the bible says that. The bible also says love is important. Just remember, its ok to have fun, just dont fall in love with them while they are married. Enjoy the ride

No_User_Name: Go ask the guys wife what she thinks of it.

Marriage of convenience, pretty sure shell have a different opinion on that.

tauresa: cos you get used! find yourself a single guy to enjoy , let the cheating spouse sort their sad life out.

orangemoon8: I was with someone who couldn't wait to get out of her marriage, but she tried to move out and get a divorce and all, but too many complications......She told me it was on paper only, .a few months after we were together...I ended up meeting him at a BBQ /pool party she had at her house.. a few years later, I saw what she was talking about.....lol, ..we were together for 8 yrs...til she passed away

Perla B Fat: Only if he or she was really hot and I knew them and cared for them. lol,

Perla B Fat: Idk..if one of them is looking to hook up, the marriage is already in trouble. if not me..then it will be someone else. so if its someone i like and care about, why not.

Perla B Fat: same here

Elaine_Jaded: I was with a guy who was married. He was married for all the wrong reasons. He stayed because of the kids. But He only loved me. I was in fact his one and only. We were together for five years. We broke up because I wanted more kids, and he honestly really didn't being that his two kids were pretty much headed out the door. And wanted his break being that he took care of two children for 18 years.

shellyenglish80: Elaine, you were his one and only? You were the other woman. He was a cheater. Had you really meant all that much he would of left wife, divorced to be you. Please don't glorify your trashy afffair with a married man. He was never yours.

classylady61: Sometime just because two people are marry there is still something that is missing. They go out and seek it from someone else. If anyone has a relationship with a marry person you have to be able to accept the fact that that you are second to that person and you might not have a lifetime chance with that person. At the sametime nobody can help who they fall in love with.

calybonos: stupid question

calybonos: Emotional response.

~LoisLane~: I think that dating some one who is married doesn't sound wrong at all. You could all go to one of the inlaws houses for dinner. Maybe play some Scrabble afterwards. Nothing wrong there.