Love or Money (Page 2) Will_777: calybonos: Less drugs next time dude. I think you have the wrong forum or site for your previous post. Try www.necrophilia.com  calybonos: Will: Less porn next time, dude. Either that, or you are unaware of the terminology. Dead presidents = US currency.  wildrose62: Okay, so there's a fire in your house - are you going to grab your loved one, or your wallet? Or worse, HIS wallet? Money can't buy you love, just a pale imitation. Will_777: That is true, but it brings up new point. Would anyone truly be happy in a poor relationship? Not being able to go out and spend true time together. Shouldn't both people in a relationship be happy for the relationship to be a happy one?  calypso84: True. The needs of both parties have to be fulfilled in order to keep the realtionship happy. If one person feels that they need something more, then they have to seek compromise or it simly won't work out. There are people that like to lead a quiet, simple life, but there's also a bunch that likes to go out every weekend and do something fun. If they have no money for that, they will suffer. Will_777: Thank you for the reply everyone. So to conclude: Love is more important than money, thus a relationship can work if both of the people in the relationship are happy. And money only becomes an issue if one or both of the people wants more than what the relationship has to offer, which applies to not just money, but anything that a person may feel lacking. Does that mean that happiness is the core of any relationship? wildrose62: Being happy with each other is.....and sometimes that also means giving each other some space to do the things that they like to do alone or with other people - without any jealousy or guilt trips. My partner fishes - it makes him happy... I hate fishing. I garden, it makes me happy.... he's not into it..... but we also have things we like to do together... so I suppose it's all a balance. He's been in two relationships where his exes just wanted more and more material things until it wore him out. Money isn't an issue for me, as I've always earned my own living and haven't had to ever rely on anyone else for that, so the one thing that had been hard for him in the past, was no longer an issue. We're really happy, and at nearly 10 years together, we seemed to have skipped all the cliches like the 7 year itch...  Idonthaveausername: I think love is more important because it can keep you grounded and stable. At the same time, no matter how you put it, you also need money for bills food and all that other stuff. Especially when 2 people are planning to live together, you will both need money. Both are needed for STABILITY and SECURITY. I could explain more but I don't feel like it right now lol. | Dating Chat Room Similar Conversations |
