Dom, Sub or Switch which are you?

BAD WOLF_: I personally am a switch but prefer being a sub

Dezie46: why?

Sum Beach: Switch on and off

Leaahh:

Leaahh: Are we talking really Dom..whips, chains, shyt like that?

Dezie46: why what is a fake Dom?

Sum Beach: no i was talking about light switches

Leaahh: I think there are different degrees of Dom and Sub.

Leaahh: I'm no expert..enlighten me.

Dezie46: It can be more of a mind set rather then anything physical. lots of guys/girls liked to be whipped, tied up etc but dont wish to submit or be submissive - if that makes sense

Leaahh: Yes makes sense. Depending on the degree of pain, I guess I'm both at times. Not into getting whipped.

Leaahh: Not into being humiliated or made to crawl around like a dog lol

Dezie46: fair enough too - the degree of pain someone likes is not necessarily an indicator of sub/dom preference

Leaahh: hmm..it's about letting your partner take full control..Dom that is?

Leaahh: I think I'm more of the pleasing the other person type while being pleasured myself... So does that make me a sub? but also willing to make my partner happy to a certain degree in whatever makes him happy.

Dezie46: In my opinion yes

Dezie46: oops, my reply was to your statement - hmm..it's about letting your partner take full control..Dom that is?

Leaahh: yes

BAD WOLF_: Im not so much referring to whips and chains so much as the mind set

Leaahh: I'm always willing to try new things when I'm with someone I trust and care for.

Leaahh: Well thanks for the help.

BAD WOLF_: well I missed quite a conversation

Dezie46: cool way to look at it Leah

Leaahh: lol Arthur..chime in now.

Dezie46: so we were on the right track Aruthur?

BAD WOLF_: Yeah I dont do whipping either it's more of a control thing