Question about sex that I have really being honest.

NeverFearDarkness
NeverFearDarkness: Do people actually have sex in real life?
Let me explain first before you answer.....
It might initially sound like a stupid question.

By the way I am NOT a virgin.
I have clear knowledge of intentionally having consensual sex with a person, but it seems for some reason that I don't remember doing it.
I wasn't impaired by drugs or medication of any type and I am also competent in my state of mind.

It is just weird!
The reason I ask if real people actually have sex is because it almost seems like something that isn't really real or existent. Perhaps fantasy?
Sex is everywhere, Television, Movies, Music, Social media, Websites, Books, Art, Photography. People often even discuss it in conversation.
I legitimately wonder if it is just something people say because it is implanted in their minds.
I know for a fact that people shouldn't believe everything they hear as well.
Seriously if half the crap that people say about sex were true everybody would be porn stars.
The only reason people probably would have intercourse (which is the way that stuff supposed to work) is to like make babies.
It isn't fun at all to me and I hate it honestly.
Plus from my experience most people don't want to put out.
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NeverFearDarkness
NeverFearDarkness: Why isn't anyone replying to this?
Does no one take me seriously?
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lori100
lori100: If you don't remember having sex, perhaps you have abuse issues .....blocking out sex is a symptom of abuse, are you attracted to guys? Many people do have sex and greatly enjoy it......you need experience to learn how to get the most out of it......it can be the greatest experience of your life....
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NeverFearDarkness
NeverFearDarkness: No, I can honestly say that I wasn't abused anytime in my life.
I am male. Why would I be attracted to guys? I, myself am a man.
I have in fact possibly considered it, but I am repulsed by the thought.
It is against my religion and it is considered a sin.
I also have a lot of respect for myself and my loved ones.
Sorry. I am not homosexual!
I have tried to have relationships countless times with women, but they never
seem to work out successfully.
As a result of this I spend almost all of my time alone developing
hobbies and unique interests in life.
I am very technologically advanced, very skillful, talented and intelligent.
I have a professional major in literary arts and writings.
I love to collect things. I'm a musician and love music.
I seriously love my guitars!
This may begin to sound completely insane, but If it were actually
anyway possible I would marry one of my guitars.
Before you jump to conclusion.........
I have a very special bonding relationship to my stringed instruments.
My guitars comfort me in a certain sense and have been there for me many times when real people haven't. My guitars are my family similar to how some may consider animals as pets to be a loved family member, only guitars are not actually living.
I am very personal and close with my guitars.
Each guitar has it own individual personality like a person would.
Vintage guitars show their beauty with age and tell a history all their own.
Guitars have a "voice" to them.
Every guitar is different, they can even "speak" in a certain sense to the
musician who owns them.
The sound that a guitarist can make with the tones from the guitar is a special connection.
It is all about how a musician can communicate with the instrument.
I am sorry if I have put my own passions in life before other people,
If it hurts my social life, friends or restricts a relationship.
It helps me cope with the sadness I have endured throughout life.
It gives me meaning and helps me understand.
Happiness can surpass heartache.
This is my form of expression, what I care about.
I am not being selfish.
I wouldn't even be a guitarist if I didn't have the love I have for it.
I thank God before I will anyone for blessing me how he does, giving me talent
and days on this earth!
I have been promised an awaiting gift. Not death, but eternal life.
I DO believe!
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Robot Seb
Robot Seb: I think the proverbial "sex in the media" is more or less a gimmick to grab attention to a product or idea. As the saying goes "sex sells", it really does have an affect on people which can persuade them in favor of something being held or even expressed physically / verbally by the opposite gender.

It's definitely real as a lot of people do it and some are even addicted to it. I think the media aspect is more or less just for advertising purposes as a gimmick.
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lori100
lori100: sorry Neverfear....I thought you were female.....as for it not working with women, do you show a good interest in them, their interests, .....? Women need compliments and attention from a guy....or maybe you are just a late bloomer and it will take time.........
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NeverFearDarkness
NeverFearDarkness: @lori100, I actually enjoy giving compliments and saying nice things.
I am a friendly person and I'm not too shy either.
I love making conversations and I'm outgoing.
I don't make compliments on the other hand, that are like really sexual and that stuff.
Sure I flirt and love to do it, but I don't want to be perverted.
I say things about what women wear and how great it looks on them.
or I love your hair, or you have some gorgeous eyes.
Your really cute and I love your personality.
Your such a nice person.
I open doors for women, pick things up, buy drinks, pull out their chair, or maybe even light their cigarette even though I don't favor for smoking.
Mostly be polite and respectful.

(I'm more of a gentleman actually or traditional type was how I was raised)

Many guys are more racey.....
All about boobs & butts... that stuff. (some other things)
but yea...

I just don't want to be like that.
Maybe I'm too nice I don't know, but I wouldn't say Gay.
Its still a human instinct that ppl need to do it, but I am deprived I guess you could say.
(Don't get laid much) its a drag =(
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lori100
lori100: hmm...you might be too nice....you might try meeting nice girls in church groups.....some place like that
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NeverFearDarkness
NeverFearDarkness: I'll explain that later....
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LittleStarberryQueen
LittleStarberryQueen: Okay then.
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Aura
Aura: Have you ever been in love?
I can ofcourse only speak for myself, but yeah, when I am in love I do want to have sex with that person.
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