older women younger men a new trend ? (Page 4) uglycow10: .... And it is great tgat we in the west have the right to exercise whatever option we wish missymichele6959: This was not that big an issue, but I always eager younger men!!!!! My second husband was four years younger than me! My date to my senior prom in high school was three years younger than me. We are not talking in tens of twenties but I always had a BLAST with those younger dudes!!! lonely as usual: I have amost always dated older women,and they seem to have a hang up about it but to me they are just more desirerable flamingred: I always decide by personality not age, in my sexual , personal and friend relationships people are so different , best to decide individually not by age Mopar2004: As a woman, of not too old? Lol, I think some older women are looking for someone who makes them feel younger. Or maybe they're just more about the sex than chilling out..so to speak. I, myself, would just be happy if the man I'm with knew, as much about life, as I did. Just saying? uglycow10: I very much agree with that. The initial involvement with a younger man is quite ego-boosting and gives you a lovely, emotional high. However, after all is said and done...what more is there?. Sex is not everything. Having a young stud , as eye candy is not everything. To me, the intellectual connection and the life experience connection is equally important. Fortunately, some younger guys are wise beyond their years, and if you have that component, as well, I would say that you have the whole package. In my opinion, if the vibes are great, age colour or creed should not matter. Just follow the vibes. and see where they lead you... Mopar2004: I agree with that. I've met some younger guys that are in control of their lives. More so than some men that are my age. It's kinda messed up? hornchurchmale: there s bait of a mix. younger females tend to get attracted to older guys as they show more interest in them as a person not just for sex . are likely financially sound . more sophisticated etc and it can be rewarding not to be just dated for ones body and getting load of self interest form a guy about cars.bikes.football etc even having a car door opened can make a young lady feel wanted. appreciated etc on flip side with young guys older females. the attitudes of social shock such as. she's old enough to be your mother etc and all looking down on bot no longer apply. older females tend to find sexual performance better form younger fit males unsurprisingly. now have own financial security etc and find attain of a young man flattering making her feel good about self .desirable etc. though in many cases it is just about sex often theres another dimension involved. who is to say there is anything wrong with an age differential anyway. uglycow10: I think that it all has a lot to do with how we are socialized from birth. We are primed to socially accept seeing and older man with a younger woman ...but not the reverse. The younger guys on here always explain to me that they find older women to be more deciisive with what they want from the relationship...or concerning sex...and that is what attracts them. Some even clain to find certain physical attributes quite appealing...a few wrinlkes here; the 'not so perfect bod'. One never really knows what turns on another human. Personally, I think that it is that curiousity factor...sometimes a mere trend. The older female is also a person who you don't have to take home to mama ot introduce to your friends. Mostly, it's as simple as, how she makes you feel.. She has a better handle on life and has already ' seen around all of those corners' that young people still wonder about.. It is shocking to see those types of hook-ups, but at the same time, beautiful. In the end, it is just a human connection where there is mutual satisfaction...and that is all that matters. sithapprentice095: I think older women and younger men are the most natural combination mentally and sexually flamingred: read that , the best mix is a mature woman and a younger man , sexually anyhow was the article's point of view LoisS: I dont think its a Trend. I think its been around since.....forever. *What's that you say, Mrs. Robinson Jolting Joe has left and gone away Hey, hey, hey Hey, hey, hey..... hornchurchmale: nothing new. however society has change outlook in western world . was a time not too long ago a man could marry a 12 year old in UK. these days only ones doing that are Muslims it seems. | Dating Chat Room Similar Conversations |