what do guys look for? this ones for you guys

allie_kat: All right I got out of a 3 year relationship 2 months ago and haven't been on a real date in a long time so my question is... honestly what qualities and things do you guys look for when looking for a girlfriend?

Kaotic_J: What guys want doesnt differ much from what you girls look for in us,honesty,funny,secure in themselves.someone to make our hearts beat a little harder,someone who takes pride in their appearance,being cute dont hurt either.

Being a tomboy is a turn off,if we wanted our women to act like men we would date men,we dont like being put under the thumb thats what our mothers are for lol

allie_kat: Lol good to know

expect_me247: allie, your goregous, you won't have any problem with dating in my opinion, don't sweat it.

Zero___: Personally.. I dont look for.. Its easy.. i meet this girl right? depending on her behavior .. My hormones can move.. or can stay still. If they moved.. I like her.. i might ask her out..
Most of the times its a yes because I watch my behavoir

RamboRimbaud: everything....understanding......caring....empathy......someone who will celebrate our victories withus ad who understands our extrem sense of humor

happily_ever_after: Personality and trust & lovely truth from heart that impotent thing i think

expect_me247: seriously, don't let them lie, we say this online cause it's easy, but when it comes down to it, she's hot she's in, she's not she's gone. just being honest.

allie_kat: Haha honesty is good expect lol

expect_me247: like i said before, you won't have any problem. even with honest guys like me

socialdistortion: I look for a lady who is honest and loyal, and intelligent. Someone who enjoys a debate and isn't afraid to put her opinion across. Above all, though, she must be trustworthy as I hate cheating and I would never do it so I expect the person I'm dating to be the same in that regard.

allie_kat: Good to knoe

allie_kat: *know

Queenslander41M: I guess all males a different and have different likes and dislikes in females.
As everyone has said before honesty,communication,having a sense of humor is good.
Also not being scared to muck in and help out when needed.
It awesome when a girl is all dressed up and looking beautiful but also putting on a set of jeans and a t-shirt and gloves and help out.
A beautiful smile is a winner in my books also...
Just be yourself and if the guys dont like that,then there loss..

happily_ever_after: trust its importing thing in relationship

allie_kat: Thanks guys

happily_ever_after: you welcome Dr. allie

allie_kat: ...I'm not docter

drmjs: Really am the type of guy that looks for mature girls. Has head screwed on right, funny smart and know's what her goal are.

expect_me247: wow, who would've know all the sane, sensible guys are online! you guys all make it look like you're all perfect! maybe i'm just being a dick, which is a very good posiibility but, when it comes down to it, physical appearance is at the top. not a single one of you mother fuckers put down that she has to be attractive or atleast that you are attracted to them. for real?

Queenslander41M: @expect_me247 : your right on the aspect of attractiveness.
There has too be something about that person you like for you to even think about trying with them.
A spark that pulls you towards them and you want to know more about them.
But you could be a super model and have the personality of a bucket of crabs.

expect_me247: still, supermodel with suck-ass personality versus plain jane that can hold a conversation ... mmm i'm leanin more towards the supermodel

allie_kat: Ah...

expect_me247: just because the truth about who we really are on the inside isn't a positive thing doesn't make it any less the truth. bad things can be true too. even people

allie_kat: Oh lol believe me I know

Desslock: I look for the right heart in the right body