Sick of getting harassed (Page 2) ☀▃▂▁/V\iragε▁▂▃☀: I've had requests.. And so far the wireclub men respected my answer of no. They're not all trolls  Debbylonglegs: LawsonLachelle~ It's..a..numbers..game...hun! As...sick...as...it..sounds...for...every...100...of..us..girls... they..do...get..a..few..bites. What..do..they..care..if..they..get..rejected...by..the...masses....or..offend..us?!?! It's..on-line!!!!....It's..not..a..bar!!! Unfortunately....you...better...get.....used..to...it..or..grow..tougher..skin.  LawsonLachelle: My main issues is not that they do it but when i say no they just keep going or get pissy then try to friend request me. I see that its a numbers game but i really want to know how many girls go for it and for many of these so called girls are really just guys that want to be girls i have ran into a few "girls" on here that are really guys an this is the only place they can come to act female and really get away with it.  SoulProvida: then theres young girls floggin nude pics for credit, so its not a MAN thing, the web is just that....a trap  xanderiley: Oh, please. Life is tough, it's even tougher when you're stupid. The web's the medium. If you think it's a trap, throw your television and your radio out of the window right now. Along with your radio, anything with print on it, your phone, and your knowledge of written and spoken language of any kind. The "but they were bad, too!" arguement, as long as you're near a window. Overwhelmingly, the suck is from men towards women. My trust has been abused too, but I'm not seeing with tunnel vision. ☀▃▂▁/V\iragε▁▂▃☀: -Singin'- she's a cyber freak... A cyber freak.... She's really freakkkky.. Yowwww - - - y'all know the song  memberX: I've been under a constant harasement of the female member part on this site since I've appeared here... ...they were doing lots of things and are doing anything just to found out one more information about me... ...but to tell you the truth, I do not mind about that cause they will never discover something because of the fact that I'm telling always different stories about me... ...but honestly, I like the attention and curiosity about me...and sometimes they are so sweet when they are doing that... ☀▃▂▁/V\iragε▁▂▃☀: so you really don't have tea with polarbears in the day and snuggle with penguins at night X.... I'm appalled! memberX: they called me over there to melt the ice from their hearts, and after that i will be gone... Kara_NZ26: Gets annoying, Just change settings, or better yet, just block and delete. I "heart" my block button Although amongst the trolls and creepers out there, male and female, you find the odd diamond in the rough that you can have decent funny chats with. It's the internet, all I do is type in BAHAHAHAHAHAHA and then X the chat box.  kct1993: Honestly I just come into this chat rooms to meet new people and possibly establish new friendships. But it really slows down my inspiration when there are raging creepers trying to dirty talk with me. I'm not here for cyber s^y, and for safe measure I'll rather not use web cam. As I said, I'm just here to make friends, not to get cyber laid. (Post deleted by staff ) 
Scopinitout1: Well, mebbe, Arie ... but then, no one interesting and fun can drop in on you either. Remember, people may like to get a look at your pics and profile before they send you a friend request. (Post deleted by staff ) xanderiley: While I'm sympathetic towards Scop, airee has the right of it. There are just too many testosterone-poisoned mouth-breathers out there looking for an unsecured access point to anything female to be worth bothering with on an individual basis. For one in a hundred to be worth the other ninety-nine -- nope, keep them PMs closed. Chances are Mr 1-in-100 will make his presence known in public chat by a superior level of interaction. It ain't perfect, but it's good enough. (Post deleted by staff ) xanderiley: I don't take any comfort in it, aire. Watching someone drive another away because of a fundimentally mistaken attitude in human interaction (cultural, personal or psychological) is painful to watch. And I ain't just talkin' 'bout the fellas. It's, however, the way the wind noticably blows most of the time to those of us who've been around a while. The reverse happens, but it's usually more subtle, cynical and devistating as it's more 'emotional judo', painfully manipulative. No gender gets a walk.  paulns: I met some nice girls on here just with good conversation - and I am not saying that sometimes we dont mutually lead the conversation into flirty conv. What bothers me is that so many women that dont set their private message controls freak out or snap back rude if you message them. Also the first message from a woman shouldn't be: "why are you on here if your profile says you are in a relationship?"...when you say that it means you are a) trusting what is on our profiles, or b) assuming I am messaging you for something sexual...hmmmm Also look around there are plenty of married women in here for all types of reasons too - just scan a few profiles and you will see. I know because i like chatting with them - in fact prefer it. Frankly the cheaters and the creeps wont tell you the truth anyway so if you dont want to talk to them dont answer or shields up. Kara_NZ26: If I'm chatting in the Main Room then I will block my msgs from everyone except friends. Although if I'm just lurkin then I leave my messages open for all. It doesn't take much for you to answer a "Hey baby, wanna see my *insert inflated number here* inch on web cam" PM with "LMAO.... or bahahahahahaha, or  or something similar. Or better yet, just don't answer it. Watchin in the Main Room, I see the women complain about people PM'n etc. Just block em and move on. No point getting upset. | Dating Chat Room Similar Conversations |
