Sick of getting harassed LawsonLachelle: I’m not a prude by no means ask my husband but I’m getting sick of getting into the chat rooms and being constantly harassed wanna cam, wanna cyber, ur sexy . Then when I let then know hey im not interested they have little cyber tantrums. I mean do men really go into a bar and say to the first girl they say hey im h^~%@ what should we do about this I understand at the end of the night lol but its like come on don’t you think if you sweet chat just little you might get further or I don’t know maybe read someones profile which mine says the very top I don’t cam or cyber .. Just wondering if there is anyone else out there that is sick of it Karry_86: the same thing has happened to me. all u can do is tell them how it is. if they dont like it, its their problem. people have a right to their own opinions. the internet is not like going to a bar, these ppl on here dont know you so they feel as though they can ask anything, or any obscure thing. all you can do is tell it how it is to begin with. unfortunately some ppl dont read others profiles before talking to them. i know its a pain in the butt, but the internet is what it is. memberX: Well, its not like that exactly...but if I'm interested in a lady...I will go straight and directly and tell her my attentions with some charming words(charm is deceiptive) meryemj73: i get harrased allot and was thinking the other day i should do the same as you and put no camera etc, but you r right noone pays attention and i reackon 95% of the males i have come across have one thing on their mind. So i know how you feel and i hope your time on here gets better! memberX: Of course, but did you knew that it is sci-proven that some females think more on s~^ during the day than males. channelsurfer: Perhaps but sometimes these men warp I perceptions on guy's and we think you are all (not respectiful) like that. LawsonLachelle: MemberX i agree with that i prolly think about it more daily then some men do but that doesnt mean im gonna go on the web and try to cyber asult all the men on here with crude comments (not that most would mind) lol. I would really like to see some stats on how many guys are sucessful when they apporch girls by rude comments Scopinitout1: Well, I personally get pretty tired of many of the women on here having all these stereotypes about men in general. For example, meryemj's implications that 95% of men on here have one thing on their minds and that men don't read women's profiles before they talk to them - and others. BALONEY! It sounds like many of you ladies don't know many of us, or know much about us either. You need to get to know us as individuals, just like we need to get to know you. Yes, LawsonLachelle ... many of us men WOULD mind if you "cyber-assault us with crude comments." Geeeez! Talk to us, communicate ... and don't walk around with a chip on your shoulder about men or hold to all these crazy stereotypes! WAYTOBIG: Again same paint job,just a different brush. Why not stay away from chat rooms for a change? duncan123: its cos they are homos. they attack men as well they attack men when they are talking to women who would go any where and run up to a man n women talking and say hey look im rubbing my genitals? but they did it all the time in the chat rooms. there has to be a chat room for homos and any that gay the other rooms have to be banned. everywhere it is lawful to violently stop those people they do it in the streets and are total criminals kill them all...before they kill everyone xanderiley: Better idea: adjust your private message function so that only friends can PM you (click "options" at the bottom of the chat screen). Anyone who's on your friends list who sends you a rude proposal, don't even reply, block them. You won't change the nature of people, so you'd better make use of the tools available to keep tools in their place. You can choose to do nothing of course, but that is your choice. meryemj73: scopeinitout, this isn't a personal attack on males, i am simply pointing out my Experience here...... Everytime i meet onetracked mind people on here i simply tell them i'm not interseted, do you think most stay for a chat? Anyhow hope every1 enjoys there time here, i sure enjoyed venting some frustration calypso84: Mhm I know what you girls mean! Comments like " Your face tells me you're a bad girl" or "Let's play some nasty on cam" really makes me bored...And ofc there are guys in here that you can talk normally with but most of them starts conversation with some suggestive propositions Scopinitout1: Okay, meryemj ... point well taken. I don't know, I guess I'm just kind of tired of hearing the same things over and over from many of the women ... "So many pervs on here," "So many guys with one-track minds," etc. You'd get the idea that most of the ladies on here are bitter at any attempt to engage them in conversation - or at least they have some very hard attitudes about men in general. But - I've enjoyed conversation on here with many females, and I'm sure I'm the richer for it. There really are a lot of witty, fun, and intelligent females on here who are willing to chat with some of us, and for that I'm thankful. I just hope that all of us can enjoy what these social networking sites are set up for ... fun conversation and meaningful contacts with people from all over the world. Malobear: Your probably better just to ignore those request. This chat stuff is really no different then I remember Singlesnet was about the kids harassing the women. Privite rooms are great if you can get enough involved and can boot at will if a troublemaker comes around. At least from the person that sets up the room. duncan123: men don't do what these wireclub members do they are seriously ill in the head and going to get worse memberX: Another truth about...truth can hurt I know... Anyway...any wise and real female knows that is not good to argue with males and complain about them...she will know how to make all things flat. | Dating Chat Room Similar Conversations |