Am I the only one... (Page 2) jennebraska: True, I think the question though was how does it make one feel when stranger's call someone sexy? It was more position of power vs. true intimacy.  (Post deleted by staff ) jennebraska: Ah, Hmmm, Why do I get the feeling I am being trolled? So you want to be technical and nit picky, I think the orgional question was refering to men that were implied not to be in relationship with said (female) person. So thusily, a stranger, not closely intimate.  Imperfect_Perfection: The original question did not specify whether or not the person was known to the one being labeled sexy. It refers to both strangers and familiars. (Post deleted by staff ) (Post deleted by staff ) Imperfect_Perfection: Thank you Renaissance man. I agree. No need for insults or arguements about the question.  (Post deleted by staff )   ccr4ever2012: I got looks from both sexes, which doesn't bother me a bit. It's a just a compliment. Among a small portion of guys, It's not nessessary means going to bed Mc Lovin: Men can love your for your intellectual attributes too. Calling you sexy should be taken as a compliment. What if your weren't considered sexy? Maybe they find your intellect sexy?  proud2bebrown: I understand that being called sexy is a compliment to MOST WOMEN. However, there is a percentage of women who feel uncomfortable being called that term and look @ us men as sexist pigs. I think in your case you look more into depth of the definition of sexy as wanting to know someone deeper intellectually, as i feel that words and a stimulating conversation is what attracts you to someone. I may be wrong but that's how i interpret what you are trying to say. Mc Lovin: You seem like a smart woman. If we came face to face and I thought you were physically attractive, would you take offense to it? Steve02: If being called sexy is the worst thing that has happened to you in a day, then you haven't got too much to worry about. (Post deleted by staff )
BigBadWolfe: I think your thinking too far into this.Most women find it a flatter to be called sexy.That doesn't always mean he wants to have sex with you.Think of the women who never get called "sexy".What do you think they feel,"he loves my mind".Enjoy the compliments while you can,it doesn't mean you have to sleep with every guy who says that.When you get older and don't here that any more,be thankful that you were attracted to men.  justdon: Your personality contributes to sexiness. You can have a knock-out body and face, but a sh**y personality, and your sexy hits bottom. Likewise, you can have a larger body with obvious imperfections but a sweetness to your personality and get the "sexy" tag. Most people with good looks and a body that is the "in thing" at the moment tend to think of themselves as higher quality than others. In a woman's case, men can see this belief and will then use 'sexy" only on the looks. If it works out and sex does happen, you're just getting your looks done. Not the whole person. So, it's a compliment to a whole person who is being real and an insult to a person who thinks they're all that. Gods Insanity: Commenting on a woman's physical side is not bad. We are all attracted to beautiful things. Poems, songs were/are made towards a woman's shape. Her breasts, her shape are desirable and can be intoxicating. If you don't like an open compliment on this, that's fine as well. The word 'sexy' is probably seen as degrading now. All depends on your view and the context it is said. It is difficult to assess someone's intelligence without knowing more. (Edited by Gods Insanity) | Dating Chat Room 2 People Chatting Similar Conversations |
