Are there any decent men and women left on the dating scene?? cookey: Having gone on various dates since becoming single am left wondering if there are any genuine people left! I'm sick of trying to sort through the 'players', commitment- fobes, wierdo's and fugly men out there. So much so that I bought myself a dog!! Your thoughts?? Unforgiving Spirit: Theres plenty of "good guys and girls" out there, you just have to look harder but still play it safe... I'm a genuine guy...but so far it seems that everytime I fall in love with someone here, sooner or later they leave or disappear from Wire.. AwesomeAshley: Of course there are good guys out there, hon. They're just harder to scope out. Sometimes, the "fugly men" are the ones that are the good guys, the guys that are never given a chance. People need to stop worrying about what others think of them. When I see an unattractive fellow with a pretty girl, my first thought is, "Good for him." The nice guys are never given a chance, cause girls would rather have the hot guy that beats her over the nice guy that treats her like a princess, but is also unattractive. Heck, there might be a nice guy in your life now that you aren't giving the time of day. And if so, then you're the one that needs to do the change... The change within yourself. Best of luck to you! Unforgiving Spirit: But..there are some goodlooking guys that actually are "nice guys", not just the fugly guys...or "average looking" for that matter naik24: destiny just keeps us waitin,,,,,,,,,,every guy nd girls have there pair,,,just have 2 find them,,,,,,,,,,,,,,who knws u might just end up meetin on wire,,,lolz cookey: I've just logged in after what seems like ages off, Dog bought and still I get messages. I have taken all you're advice and are giving all a chance, so far an ex para, a business man,, a salesman and a lorry driver........ if nothing else happens I'm having fun!!! (Post deleted by hannahsingh96 ) naik24: @hanna,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,just wana say,,,u rock,,,nd wht hapnd was too bad,,,,just move on,,,,wit smile cowgirl1004: i believe there are decent ppl out there....i am one...i just recently got a bf about 6 months ago and he proposed to me on our 6 month anv. you have to just get to be friends with the gil/guy fist dont judge them by wat they look like on the outside...my fiance is covered in tattoos and piercings...but he is the sweetest guy ever! so many ppl judge from the out side b4 they are givin the chance to prove who they really are...i am not that good looking but i have a heart of gold and i would help anyone if i could. you have b friends like i said...cameron and i were friends for 2 yrs prior to us dateing...dont worry about wat other ppl say about the person your talking to trust your gut and make the 1st step AS A FRIEND if you start there first things move better...dont move fast though....dont let it move fast it wont work ksk1001: decent guys will always be decent . haha . maybe its a joke on decent guys and maybe not. whatever the reason be , decent guys are more than those who are not decent . its just rumour that decent guys are rare and soon to be extinct. anyways i am not sure about me . if i am decent or not. and i realy cant tell about other persons. but one thing i am sure that i cant disrespect women ever . cowgirl1004: i believe its all on how the man was raised...decent men will always be if their parents raise them to be decent BigBadWolfe: Women say they want a nice guy,but usally end up with an asshole.They say good guys are boring and predictable.So what is it ladies?.Mind you good guys want good girls,and thier just as hard to find.Nothing personal ladies. ksk1001: decency is a quality which is within the soul. once have u always have this. no matter what, respect for women comes out of nowhere, which is hard to know to people who cant respect women . but thats how i feel. | Dating Chat Room Similar Conversations |