Living in love ajones197445: Love is the meaning of life. Love is the support you give to your care and fulfilment and the care and fulfilment of other people and everything. ajones197445: This thread is about the benefits of living love and the challenges of only thinking and acting in love.  Trail_7: Yes sometimes it can be challenging since self care (ʘᴗʘ✿) could clash with the wants or perhaps needs of other people. ajones197445: I agree, the most significant challenge to living in love is the wants and needs of other people. They often clash with your wants and needs. Healthy compromise is an important part of living in love. Trail_7: Compromosing things to do or meeting in the middle? And yes, that seems about accurate - I imagine things would clash unless you meet someone very similar to yourself which also happens I think / I mean my playmate as a kid we liked the same things.  LoisS: What do you mean by "living in love"? Loving everything else but yourself? Letting love blind you? Trail_7: He said it's about both as well as compromise and no, I don't think being blinded by love is good either but sadly it happened to me before. I mean in a way maybe it was OK since I loved him even if he was not healthy for me. Trail_7: Why do men love some women but only sleep with and use others? Because others are more virtuous and wait for sex? Because they can use some? Just a matter of being at the wrong place at the right time? Because he likes the other one more? No guarantees? |