am i flirting? or being frendly?

kitsu101: i seriously cant figure out wen im flirting..its like i do it with out knowing it! making my bf's jealous

virginkiss: lol, i use to have the same prob.--i'd flirt and wouldnt even realize it!! i was/am just a friendly person.
then i turned 16, nd tht summer i figured out the difference:
whenever i would flirt w/ guys, i would look them in the eyes, and give them-idk some kind of certain look tht made them go crazy (lol)-then i'd smile a little, tht kind of junk.
when i waz just being friendly-nd most of my friends are/were guys- i would just have the conversations, wouldn't look at them any special way...
nywayz, its hard to explain, but i caught on to my game early on-then it kept backfiring, but thts bsides the pt.
hope i may have helped

Swoop: ohhhhhhh so that's what "that look" is, damn and bugger!! the chances i have missed

virginkiss: lol, yh-im pretty good at tht..but, like i said, it backfires a lot

Swoop: Backfires?......how so?

virginkiss: bcuz then ppl actualy start liking me lol- its likem, i can never flirt w/out some kind of commitment nymore lol plus, then the guys get the wrong ideas in their head... oh well, prolly shouldve listened when my friend warned me tht it would backfire. ha ha i dont listen too well...

Swoop: ahhh i see, well, cmon.......if you give the signals and they are read as you meant, guys will see a green light to flirt back, if you go fishing be prepared for the fish to take the bait

virginkiss: lol, yh, yh i know--bsides, im addicted to this kind of flirting, its so much fun, im rarely not in a plyful or at least semi-playful mood.

MaskOfDionysus: wow, i'm so happy i found this club! lmfao. I am a flirtaholic, but i plead insanity because i don't even realise i'm doing it! LMAO

Scary_Guy: totally flirting and i won't deny it, so all u ladies out there that wanna flirt with me, go rite ahead

clancymorley: flirting makes gf or wifes jelous which in turn makes for better s^~ just to make sure they keep your intrest

angellinegirl: yeah flirting can be addictive and ppl get rly jealous..i've got the same problem but i don't realize when i am doing it so my partner gets rly annoyed with me sometimes.
i think ppl that are playful by nature will be more flirty?

VetteGirl64: You can be both and be safe.If youre a girl, flirting is a way to get a guy you like to loosen up and talk to you and vice versa.

VetteGirl64: You need to be friendly first and flirt a little as not to give the wrong idea about you.