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The Academy of Submission
KittenBlu: Screen Name: kittenrose_princess
Location: Missouri
Owner: master1500

I have not done these lessons since they were created for me by my Mistress Penni some 3 years ago. I hope to rediscover my submissive soul in order to serve MySir to the level that He deserves.
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu:
2. What does submission mean to me?

Submission is the giving of oneself totally to her Dominant. Trusting Him to know what is right for her and allowing Him to direct her body mind and soul. To submit is to be strong enough to let go of yourself and put yourself in the hands of another.
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu:
3. Dominants should be capitalized and submissives with lowercase. Why?

Dominants should have their names capitalized to show the respect due them as a Dom. My personal feelings are that Sir, Miss and Ma'am are appropriate titles to give to a Dominant but that Master and Mistress should be reserved for ones own personal Dominant.

Submissives should have their names lower cased to show their status as submissive to Dominants. This reminds them to hold the Dominants with respect. Submissives are often called by pet names by their Dominants.

However, a submissives Dom may give them specific directions on how to address other Dominants and submissives. This should be respected by others.
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tsukikohime
tsukikohime: very detailed and well said...please continue
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu:
4.Safe Words/Limits

SafeWord: daisy

Limits:
no minors
no fecal/unination ingestion
no real animals
no harming others

This is and always will be an evolving list as different situations arise. I have in the past removed limits from my list as a Dom pushed me past them...I have added others as they came up.
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tsukikohime
tsukikohime: great job, don't forget that you limits are an evolving list that may change over time ~winks~ please continue...
(Edited by tsukikohime)
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu:
5.Obedience

Obedience is complying with an order from your Dom without question or hesitation. Knowing that your Dom has your best interests at heart and will keep you safe is an important part of obeying. If you cannot trust your Dom, it is difficult to obey without this hesitation.
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tsukikohime
tsukikohime: very good, all of the tenants fit together like puzzle pieces to make a whole...continue
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu:
6. Communication

Communication is conveying your wants and needs through your words and actions. It is very necessary to be able to talk to your Dom and for Him to talk to you. No one is a mind reader. Often we assume that our Dom understands what we need and want because of actions we have done or previous conversations. I have learned that if one needs something, a short clear statement is best to express those needs. i have gone the route of "He should know by now". But if i have not made a clear statement how is He to know? As in honesty, what is unsaid can be as detrimental to communication and a relationship as what is said.

On the other side of the coin, one must be prepared to hear what is said and accept the words. We often ask a question and then when the answer is not to our liking, we strike out or withdraw. Communication is a 2 way street, both parties must be actively participating. It is a combination of not only speaking clearly, but listening with an open mind and heart.
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tsukikohime
tsukikohime: very good, open dialogue is key...please continue
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu:
7. Trust

A submissive needs to trust her Dom. To know that she can be honest, that she can have open communication and be listened to. To trust that He has her best interests at heart and while He might push her limits, He will never ignore them. And that He will keep her safe from not only others but also from Himself.

A Dom needs to trust His submissive. To know that she will be honest and open and that He can be the same with her. To know that she will comply and be loyal to Him. And that if she has needs that are not being met, that she expresses them clearly and with total honesty.
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tsukikohime
tsukikohime: very good, trust is the foundation for everything else...please continue
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu:
8. Honesty

Honesty is being completely open with your Dom. Telling Him how you feel, what you think, what you are doing. Telling the truth can be difficult but will bring a level of communication to your relationship that will deepen and enrich it. Lies can tear you apart. Not telling something is also equal to a lie as you have not been completely open.
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onmyknees
onmyknees: this is great! thank you kitten!
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tsukikohime
tsukikohime: wonderful...continue
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu:
9. Respect

Respect is showing honor and admiration of someone. Doms should be shown respect because of Their status. This includes capitalization, titles and speaking to them with manners. To as extent, a submissive should be shown somewhat of a level of respect for the devotion she gives to her Dom. To be treated with kindness.

However, if a Dom or sub acts in a way that warrents it, they can lose respect and all that comes with it.
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tsukikohime
tsukikohime: yes, respect is given due to position but it is also continually earned by the Doms actions and behavior, very good, please continue...
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu:
10. Committment

Committment is making a vow to your Dom that you will be with Him and no one else. Committing to a relationship is putting yourself 100% into it and being only with Him. This means even when He is not around.
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tsukikohime
tsukikohime: very good, we obey not only in our Doms presence but even out...very good, please continue...
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu:
11. Summary

In redoing these lessons i am reminded that the 6 tenet of submission all work hand in hand. Each on influences the other. I am also reminded that one needs to let go and allow the Dom to guide one in all things.
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halleydarkrose
halleydarkrose: well done..make me proud to know the teacher can still be taught
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tsukikohime
tsukikohime: wonderful job kitten, not that there was ever any doubt...
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master1500
master1500: well done my sweetie. especially number 6.
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KittenBlu
KittenBlu: ty mySir
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