being raped Lil_Sis84: being raped can cause a life long fight. you go threw the why me and how could any one do this to me. was it my fault things like that. them are things that any person gos threw when it comes to being raped. the reason i know is because it did happen to me when i was young. even to this day the nightmares come to me and its like i relive it all the time. when i was raped the people that raped me only got 6mos out of it. so they are out there runing around free when iam traped traped with the thought of if they find me things like that run threw my head every day. it makes you fear things that you most likely would have not feared befor it happen. alot of people think oh that could never happen to me i would never put my self in a place to where i could or even would be raped that is not the case. it can happen in your own home as far as that gos. some one could brake in your home any thing. you could be at a party and it happen so never say never. it can happen to you just as well as it has happen to alot of us on wire. we dont talk about things like this because when we do the pain just hits. the things that you try to forget comes rushing back in to your mind. the things that happen to you are never really gone but you got to try to move on. the thing is or the thing that most people dont get that is if you have been raped you got to get past the why it happen to you because there is never going to be a answer it not why it happen. was it your fault you got to know it wasnt even tho that part is hard. because still to this day at times i think it was my fault even tho i didnt ask for it i beged them to stop and they kept on until it just about killed me. you also got to get past the how could this happen to me because every 20sec some where in the world some one is geting raped thats sad and thats alot of women childeren or even men it can happen to men as well. then you got to see that you are not a victem any more and look at your self as a survier trust me i know that is hard to do,but you are a survier because you are still here you did not die. maybe a part of you died but you as a whole is still here and that makes you a survier. still a victem no less that you will always be but the thing that you got to look at is that you did survie it and you are still here.  boomboom68: its been twenty years now and i still have nightmares of wat he did to me and i find it hard as well in relationships too when the simple thing happens and turns u into a wreck again. And all he got was five months for raping five of us in a period of two weeks.  Lil_Sis84: yeah it dose take a toll on things when it comes to being with some one. i mean they can do something and it can make it all come back again then when it comes back you shut down because you dont know what eles to do other then to shut down. try to explan in later but then will they take the time to understand or will they even care to under stand? thats what people dont get. Lil_Sis84: thank you nash alot of people would look at us as weak but we got to look at us as being strong and takeing the steps we have to take to get threw it.  Me B: yes, should have lot of character after suffering so much in life yet to come out of it and lead a reasonable life. one thing is sure, world always highlights bad things mainly even tho how good a person is.  feel for most.  Miah Nash: hats off 2 u country,i m proud of u.u hv courage 2 stand by urself.where others look 4 corners. i m in tears.i m annoyed.i wish 2 hang all the culprits in the center of the city in front of their mom n daughters,sis n wife.how can they do this.when they protect their women tooth n nail.no mercy or humanity 4 others. Miah Nash: last but not least,i waz a victim of child abuse when i waz 6yr fatherless girl.i still take out my anger on other innocent men who hv no offence 2 me.i m sick in that aspect. otherwise i hv done pretty good 4 myself. u touched my heart,county. n nash u r one in a million man. |