Problems with PM's

Se7en_of_Nine: Hiya Mods, how are ya?

I'm having some trouble with private messages. I send them but I don't get messages quickly. And sometimes I will get a bunch all at once. I can tell because the responses to my messages our out of sync (if that makes sense) I thought at first it might just be the people I was messaging that were just taking their time, but they tell me they are answering as soon as they get them. And then after a few minutes, I don't get any messages at all. And I have to log out and back in again. Can you help?

Thanks,

Se7en.