Self Harm (Page 4) darknesslove1112: sometimes i feel like everyone in the world is shooting me down but i log on to here and chat to or just look at what XBryceX has said to me and i feel like my broken wings are fixed and i can fly agian i can fly higher and higher because he is my world my life and my drug my husband my everything bryce if your reading this its all true and dount you ever forget it hun Traumas_EdelCrux: I think it's important to find something you love more than people... a hobby... something that can't die or be taken away from you . You need an outlet to express yourself (like music or other forms of art). It's made worlds of difference for me, and unlike investing in people, it's never a loss. samanthareina: My razor is my hobby, my life, my friend. I luv poetry, but I suck and people laugh. I'm not smart enuf to write short stories, they just end up not making any sense. When I am put down, beat, laffed at, or any thing else they do to me, my razor is there to comfort, to luv, to make me feel safe.I dont do enuf to make it a problem or control my life. It is like taking an aspirin for a headache. Traumas_EdelCrux: Razors won't really help you grow though; forget about others and just do your thing, if you focus on what you love, people will see it one day, and the right ones (people looking for someone like you) will get the chance to find you. Never give up. (: (Edited by Traumas_EdelCrux) samanthareina: New foster parents took every thing I could use to cut. Had to use my finger nails and bite my arm, life does suck when you have no friends. Traumas_EdelCrux: "Friends" is a very personal and relative term. What may constitute as a "friend" to one, may not to another. (: Again, finding peace within yourself is more important than relying on others to feel at peace. (: chrisdlion: The pain that some people feel cant be reasoned by stating logic because when the person cuts its because the pain is deeper than we could imagine , no one understands the deep pain and the emotional scares that people live with each minute , and when someone reaches out for some comfort or understanding its better to be a listener , all anyone wants is to be heard and understood, just for a second , because no one was ever around to be there when they needed someone while those deep scares were being afflicied on them, and now they reach out to find comfort in others, it wont fix whats broken but it will alieve the pain a bit or for the moment! Traumas_EdelCrux: I completely understand, I used to be a cutter, a drug abuser, and a suicidal social outcast. I'm not saying that I'm free from all that, but I've worked hard towards being as stable as I can, and work towards good/positive health. (: I guess what I'm trying to share is a mentality to help cope. In my own personal opinion, it's important to gain the upper hand of one's emotions, otherwise those emotions will control you, and further dismantle all the positive relationships and potential you have as an individual. It takes time, patience, and every bit of willpower you can get together to focus on positive things. | Self-Improvement Chat Room Similar Conversations |