Grieving - Lost someone
unko: Hello. It's 5:41 A.M and I still can not get any sleep so I decided to post a thread on here. So here it goes, one of my closest friends just died from a vehicle accident. I have never lost someone so close to me before so this is really driving me insane. I do not really know how to cope up with the situation and all I can think about is her never coming back and that I will never be able to hang out with her again. How do I feel right now? It's really eating me up. It is heart-breaking. Everytime I think of her and what happened to her just makes me burst out crying, I can't help it. It does not matter where I am. It's really hard to focus in school during classes, hard to focus eating, and just hard to do anything. It sucks because she passed away too early. She's only 18 and we're supposed to be having fun together and build our friendship more and celebrate her graduation. She meant a lot to me, and it feels so weird not seeing her around in school and not getting any text messages from her. I still have not accept the fact that she's gone. It feels like she's there, but she's not. How do I cope up with this? I don't want anyone to think/believe that I am going crazy.
Harlet: i wish i could help you ease your grieving but i can not,i can't imagine losing friends as you just have being so young yourself,it's just the love you felt for her with no where to go, so send it too her essence,perhaps she will receive it.
lovely venia: I have been there I lost my son 5 years ago and I still have a hard time deal with it but the fact is you never live with the lost you live around that lost. What that means is that I have learn to that I can not do anything to bring him back and the longer I sit and try to make sense of it the least it make sense. Now I live as he would have wont me to everyday that I wake up I miss him but I say what can I do today to make him proud of me and that what I do I live around the joy that he gave me and I live to make him happy with me. Once you being to live your life for that friend and the life that they would like you to have it get easier but nothing will every make it better.
Hyenablood: you are not going crazy, I know how you feel, I have lost many family members as I was growing up. You can talk privately to a professional about how you feel, talking to someone, anyone will help you through this hard time.