kylie82: I've been dating this guy for a year and half. He has moved away from me because of his job. So we've been seeing each other like only once a month but talked on the phone everyday. I started my makeup artistry course and was super busy with it at times. But still tried to call him even though it was late. Now he has gotten another promotion and suddenly is working more,doesn't call me and like today. He says he wil call me when he gets off work at 5. I hear nothing til 9:30. He says he did laundry after work. But he use to call me and talk to me. Then he really is kinda quiet on the phone. I hear him txting so I ask him about it. He says he just received an email from human resource dept. Then a little later more typing and he asks if he can call me back bc he's going to shower. I'm thinking ok first of all HR is not going to be in this late on a sat. And respond ike that. He doesn't call me back after two hrs I send him a meassage telling him I'm going to sleep. Twenty mins later he says sorry babe fell asleep. I am divorced because my ex husband was cheating on me and it started out like this...working more. I have asked him about it and he tells me no that he loves me and would never hurt me. But I've heard that before. Am I just being paranoid or how do I find out for sure. Help need some advice!
Hyenablood: the truth about guys is : if they are down right crazy in love with you then they will be doing everything they can to be with you and talk with you.
The simple truth is, if they are not intrested in you anymore, they will acted bored around you, not bother to call back, or forget to get in touch.
Men are very simple creatures, and this guy is not intrested in you anyomore, otherwise he'd be leaving you 50 messages a day, he'd have plans to live much closer to you and not work so many hours.
ewarner1: Trust your instincts, if you think something is wrong, it probably is. Not saying he is cheating on you, but something is up.
WalkingOnADream: Hyena is right but don't be sad because of that...remember how great is to fall in love, just leave this guy behind ...