I gave my all just to be betrayed and discarded like i piece of rubbish

kittens_mittens
kittens_mittens: Found out my ex cheated on a number of occasions never thought he'd be one to cheat he begged for me back so i gave him a chance and then when he had enough discarded me WTF i was sooooooooo heart broken i could actually feel my heart aching its been 2 weeks now im trying to pick up the pieces and mend my broken heart thats bleeding pain i know there's other fish in the sea but i honestly dont want to see myself with anyone else,i thought he was my soul mate my everything i would've moved heaven and earth if he asked and i could've.he was big and not good looking at all and me the exact opposite what the bleep happened there
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xanderiley
xanderiley: Nothing to see here. Post deleted by user.
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Laurraa
Laurraa: don't give it your 'all' next time, keep some for yourself
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ElVago100
ElVago100: I am in similar situation although I am the husband and it isn't cheating. My wife has left me literally and figuratively. We talk a bit (mostly turns into arguments on why she doesn't want me around anymore). She said she needs time and space. I literally just got off the phone with her and it was nice to have a 5 min conversation with no arguing. She says she is concerned that I am not handling this "trial" seperation well and that our kids are noticing it. What the heck am I supposed to do? Laugh and joke when all I want to do is crawl into a hole. 16 years we've been together (14 married) and she says its over. Well she actually says, she will think about working it out in late June when she is done with her Master's program and gets a few weeks into her new job. I support her fully finacially and all she cares about, in my eyes anyway, are these young 22 year old classmates. She is in her mid 30's and we have 3 kids. I have the kids all the time while she goes out on weekends with these "people". Is this a phase? Or is this marriage over? She has never let me meet these people and when I brought it up once too often is when she said I move out or she will with the kids. I moved out so my kids don't lose thier home. I know she is not cheating (I just know, she is not that kind of person), but her actions are completly foreign and not like her. I think she is embarrassed of her 40 year old husband and doesn't want these young girls to see her as old. She even started dressing like a 22 year old and talks/texts like them. She got a boob job 2 years ago (I was not in agreement) and that is when things changed.
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zasyyu
zasyyu: u would have cheated on him sooner op or latter u just got it first
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xanderiley
xanderiley: Nothing to see here. Post deleted by user.
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kindfool
kindfool: hi kittens, sorry to hear that, clean your tears, travel or do others .life just is life.men is too much if you will.believe yourself.tommorrow sunshine is still bright.flowers is still bright-colored.ok??
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wallstreeter43
wallstreeter43: Kitten the problem with people who cheat is seflishness. They dont care who they hurt and they dont value the spiritual value of a true relationship. I am so sorry it happened to you, but think about this, he is the one who will never know what its like to truely love someone from the heart. This is why I wont get involved with someone who doesnt share my faith and similar values, itprotects me from being hurt thisway.
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introspec
introspec: Some good advice above, kitten.....

George Sanders said, Zsa Zsa squeezed him like an orange, and then threw the rinds into trash....

Summary: Must learn from that outrage, but harden not thy heart....

Best for good future....
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spkmom
spkmom: ok so what i dont understand is how you can be married to someone and stay gone or "tied up" 24/7. I love my husband so very much and feel like he is my soul mate but I just dont understand how he can just not ever want to be around and even when he is....he isnt
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zerostate
zerostate: poor u!
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