I'm so lonely (Page 5)
kat82: You know there is a song called "People are strange" by Doors. Listen to that carefully and you 'll understand... Get happy, live you life to the fullest, make friends, travel, start new hobbies. Life is beautiful and it passes by fast. Don't waste it with being ungrateful, 'cause other people want to live and they cannot, they die from several diseases... Start to feel strong and believe in your self!
socialdistortion: I am in the same boat. I get really lonely and I find it very hard to make friends because of the hours I work and the fact that what ever friends I do have are in relationships, getting married and/or having babies and I am the only single one. It gets demoralising.
PureSilver67: I have had over the years a wide range of friends, from my university days, my career colleagues, mothers from playgroup or from my children's daycare school ....
I am now a single mum and some of my university friends have moved on because they have their "research" lives which I am limited in because I made the wonderful choice to have and stay at home with my children, some of my career colleagues have moved up the ladder and no longer associate or are in different areas, mothers from playgroup/ daycare/ school change, move etc and in fact some who I had considered close friends "dumped" me when I became single being worried that I would then be after their partner ... like I would do that!!
I still have friends from each area of my life ... those who accept me as me - and I socialise with all differently.
I don't look at my friends and think - you're married I'm not going to enjoy your company and they don't look at me and think - you're single ... you've got nothing to contribute.
In this day and age of technology and lots of various work situations and hobbies etc there are many ways to connect with people of similar interests.
kaving9: i'm lonely.....any couple and maybe i'll be lik ethat for the rets of my life....bu it's ok if i can keep myself happy and sucess to enjoy life as it is...only 1 and with many adventures to life otherwise we never are alone God is with us!! a positive energy we cant se but its there to take it
kaving9: dont feel sad coz the real happiness is inside us and doesnt depend of anything...couple, money .Also if you really want to have a nice couple perfect for you never give up and oneday in your arms you will be keep forward and smile
Flash31: lol kaving, i didn't comment your point of view : ), just wrote a statement that i like : )
zsan718: I'm lonely. I think I have commitment issues or I'm just guilty conscious and am afraid of getting hurt. Yes I did fuck up but now every now and then I have this bad feeling in my gut that he is being unfaithful. He is perfect but I let go of him. Idk if I made a mistake . Should I tell him that I fucked up and risk loosing him fr good? Or should I just let it be and most likely waste my time?
Queenslander41M: Zsan718 : If your inner voice is saying that he was unfaithful then it might be true but if you have no proof then maybe you should sit down and talk with him and try to get to the bottom of it all as they say 1 is a very lonely number.
spankdmonkey: headabovewater loneliness is a bit like boredom its a state of mind .Its nice to have real friends some people have hundreds of friends and are still very lonely ,Become comfortable in your own skin .If your truely lonely buy a dog they are good companions faithfull and love you without conditions ..
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Queenslander41M: Hell ya dogs are the way to go or any animal as it will degrees the stress and give you a new lease of life
Mailit2me: I cannot understand how being 34yo is such a dilemma.... when there are so many options.....go to plavces you like, do things you like, be happy with yourself, and love yourself..... people will see that in you and be attracted. When you walk down the street or thru a store, smile at people and say hello to strangers..... you will be amazed how good it will make you feel and how people will react to you. Tou will become a magnet for people who like themselves and are looking for the same. You don't need to fall in love with them, just enjoy sharing time with them and they will enjoy your company. Be happy within yourself and others will see it. Good luck.
AngelOfMusic: Beautiful people are never lonely. If they are, then they are serious underachievers and probably lazy assed to make friends (which comes easy for them).
socialdistortion: @AngelOfMusic - That's bollocks, everyone feels lonely at some point and the fact they are 'beautiful' people is completely irrelevant.
AngelOfMusic: @socialdistortion: Quit 'distorting" facts. Psychologists with Phds have studies on people that are classified as "up to societal beautiful standards" having a noted higher percentage of being happier, successful, and more social (re: having friends), than those that are not.
Besides a moot point. Beautiful people's lonely spells never last too long, again if they do, it's because they are acting ignorant towards their situation.
mimibeauty: what iu need is to know that god is always with u all the time , so never think that u are alone because he is watching over u. pleas god and he well bless u with something that u never dreamed of .
jocksweet: Yes, try to read Bible when you feel loney. Otherwise, you need work hard. Busy life will drive away your loniness.