I'm so lonely (Page 3)
SophiaQG: Loneliness sometimes is a good thing ,it can leave u time to think.
but most of the time ,no one wants to be lonly.
it can also reflect that u have a strong desire to find urself.as u getting older,the feeling of loneliness will get stronger.i think the best way to get rid of it is to do sth u think are worthwhile.everyone is lonely,some admit it,n they stronger.some don`t n they try to avoid it ,they become someone else.
i don`t know what u have been through,but y don`t u use those lonely moments to figure it out what u really need inside?
hope u well
HeadAboveWater: thank you all for your posts here..
yes, i know that loneliness can be a good thing because it helps one to get to know oneself better.
when i was younger and felt down, it seemed like i was more hopeful that things will get better, so i seemed to shake off the feeling better..
but it seems now as i'm getting older and have seen the ugly, gotten my heart broken and gotten to feeling more jaded with life, i'm just finding that it takes so much more out of me just to think positive and to spring out of this "hole'...i dunno if it's an age thing or a gender thing..or whatever..
i don't want to stay in that hole. i want to climb out of it...and some days, i do! and some days, i just slip back there. i know life is meant to have ups and downs. but oh dear, there are just some days, when the hole seems soooo deep...and i'm just feeling soooo exhausted...but i just got to pull some strength out of nowhere just to get through..
i'm learning to cope. to constantly remind myself to be grateful for what i do have, to have more faith...i have a few close friends but at the same time, i have accepted that nobody can be there for me all the way. so i have to learn to be alone, without feeling lonely..
Matthius: I often find myself feeling lonely like you.
Sometimes loneliness can be good because it gives you time to reflect on life and think about things which are important to you.
I find that talking to people about it often helps as well, because people can surprise you sometimes and you might find that people share the same feelings as you.
These online chat sites are a great way to deal with feeling lonely as there always people here to talk to and you do occasionally find decent people who make you feel loved.
Vic14: I think loneliness is a part of being human that no1 can out run. It's probably the biggest fear we have as humans. We grow and as we get older, we leave friends and they leave us, we get married, have children and when they grow older they leave us. we may out live our spouse or vice-verse. It's a sad part of life, but it is what it is and i believe you have to find yourself and be content with the person you are and always be social to not have it be such a burden but, it will always be apart of us.
SophiaQG: yeah,i probably will feel the same way when i reach ur age.yet u still need to get rid of that feeling. To accept ur age it`s better than afraid of it.we all will get old ,don`t be greedy to think about young beauty,from my point of view,the beauty from ur age are much more mature,and attractive.U need to change ur altitude to live.accept the truth u r getting old,but there is only one way u can live happier is to be a attractive 30+ - year old woman.if nesscery to keep a diary everyday.n read them after several days u willl find out u spend all of ur time to be lonly .keep it until the day u feel much better .To google those attractive women all over the world,they are attractive not only for thier cover.
hope u well .sophia
Frédérika: hi - could it be that you are depressed because you´re lonely - or lonely because you suffer from depressions?
flying carpet: well, lonliness,it is such a great friend. aur,bhaji aur bhaiya ji..gyan batne se badta hai..kam akal walo ko nai smaj ata aur moti akal walo ko bi...samje imnewhreeeeeeee. vaise bi ladkiyo ki akal gutno me hoti hai..you proved it but what about you ABHISHEK..BHAISAB,AAP TO MARD JAAT KO BADNAAM KAR RAHE HO ..LEAVE THE THREAD..UNDRESTAND THE FEELINGS OF SOMEONE..MAJA MUFT KA MAT KARO,TAMASHA DEKNE KA BI PAISA LATA HAI BAHI SAB AUR BHAJI...HAHAHAHAHAHA,,FUCK..
Abhi_p: no flying carpet it depends on individual thinking if i m n wheeeeeeeeeeeere gets bored of something then it's her thinking,.why ur so serious and who is making fun of anbody just she said geting bored so i said enjoy .don't get fried by seeing bog cooments.i think carpet ur it self have probs.hhahhahahhahah
flying carpet: behn ji...Women are wiser than men because they know less and understand more...hahahahahaha..sorry...continue your fun..just interuppted to see how wisely you people can defend..just chill...