Im tired of being single

divler: I hate the single life, no one to welcome you home at night , no dates to look forward to, i dont know i feel hopeless.

The holidays only make it worse, how does one stay happy alone all the time, friends are great but they have thier own lives, most of mine are hooked up.

so how do we stay positive???

starrynight_8: hi , how r u? we met very early this morning and we chated for some time. I dont know why, but you stop talking to me after some time. May be you got busy?

I am a very lonely man living here in Ontario. I dont have many friends.

I am looking for some one to be with and go on dates. Would you care to answer this mail?

Thanks and a Merry Christmas to you.

Alina_Alexander: Stop being a helpless victim. Stop whining and complaining. You own a powerful word called "choice". So you can continue to be a helpless victim and be miserable, or "chose" to be survivor and do what ever is necessary to change your life.

Hyenablood: anyways besides that 'helpful' advice, you should go out and join a club that you have an intrest in. Or there are groups that advertise 'singles' adventures, that's where a bunch of single people get together to go hiking or rock climbing, or do something together. In that group you could meet someone, and be doing something fun or diffrent.

Malobear: My friend, I would rather be single until my dying day than to be attached/married to the wrong person,anyday. If you are ever married to the wrong person, you will find out what hell can be. Remember that as you wallow in your sorrow.

Rich_Is_Here!: I'm single too! I think people are hard to meet due to schuele and money issues! Maybe even expect to much! or Not enough trust which is the thing! Or it's the I'm not as perfect as I should be!!!!

Fearophobia: guess for me being single or married it's not main dish of the issue, it is how you carry your life...if you want to enjoy it at its fullest why not!..if you live distant of anyone,friends,leisures,etc...it's your choice...your choice is what you believe which will make you happy ...if you feel lonely, reach out!!!..guess if you ask more of married guys they would say hehe it's better to be single...

xanderiley: For what it's worth, Div, it's better to be bored with no relationship than stuck in a bad and/or abusive one. All I can suggest is to get out and meet more people, when you feel strong enough to make a good choice.
You don't wanna settle for the first warm body you see, no matter how strongly you feel the desire.
Be careful, be safe, respect yourself.

nyx808: hey, try being old and work nights! most of the available guys are younger than me. and i work a night shift which really puts a damper on my social life. to top it off i hate to meet guys in bars, so that limits my chances almost down to nil.
just go out there and live your life. when a good one comes along, grab her (not literally, mind you). and if you meet a nice looking, older guy, let me know