Need some advice? just ask i'll answer back.

karma1987: How can i help you?

Qz: You could make me a sandwich. that would help.

duncan123: make that two

Qz: Perhaps some one could rub my feet?

serrana81: i can make sandwiches

oldtimeracer: Really? You could make me a sandwich anytime you wanted to Serrana.

duncan123: sod off you old get!

Salem1257: Recently I moved to Chicago. I don't know many people so I didn't many options for new years. The nearest party I was invited to was a two hour drive away and after working ten hours driving for two hours seemed tiresome. So I decided to go to a local bar and try to get to know some people from my neighborhood. I had written to someone online last night about two hours before heading to the bar asking if he was going and if so would he want to meet to be drinking buddies. He said his friends were going and that they'd save a seat for me. Long story short, he didn't really talk to me when we met and within 7 minutes of being there I found myself sitting at the table alone. I decided to mingle and before I knew it I had connected with this table of people. During the evening things progressed and I really connected with one guy. At midnight we kissed, it felt awesome, magical even. Then about thirty minutes later, the guy that I had originally met got into a fight with this guy. It was so bizzare. He leaves me to sit alone and two hours later he's mad? Then come to find out the guy I kissed had a boyfriend. They whole evening was just a plot to get his boyfriend jealous. I felt so stupid when I realized this so I just left, went to the beach and walked on some of the lake that was still frozen. I just felt sad. So I went home and went to sleep. Happy New Year. So today I still feel sad. I think because I have a tendancy to almost dislike gay guys. I'm guy so how does that work? But they are all just full of bs and games it's rediculous. It would have been nice to have at least made a few friends but instead it was just drama with a bunch of people I've never met before. Can you see why I shy away from going to gay bars? I really would like to meet people in the area but I just don't see how. I would love to date but I don't think guys are really into that. If I let myself dwell on it all I'd be depressed from lonliness. My question for you is, besides locking myself into my work, and finding hobbies to occupy my time, what else can I do to connect with people? There has got to be a place to meet decent gay guys that would be interested in me for more than just s&w.

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