faith fullymarried but extremely lonely (Page 8)
whitebow: am married 8 years 2 time and it is not all rosy in the garden. it is not easy never am loyal never cheat on my husband have been tempted by a person at gym who makes me go gaga.
its like we totally lost connection both on different roads, we eat sleep together yet not much sex. blames me half the time for am the women yet it does take to tango not only women. yet it fine for him to watch porno and jerk off . that makes me me so mad yet its normal thing . i so don't understand men ...... am going to seek help for myself finally and start slowly over. when do my stuff then maybe all will change around me my mess up marriage so sad....
shadowkeeper: Spent too many years trying to keep my relationship together. Mostly for the kids I suppose. Long story short, she always had a reason for her affairs and finally I had enough. When it was over it felt like a tremendous weight lifted off my shoulders. Got involved again. This one told me she couldn't have kids right up until she was pregnant. Then things got really crazy. She tried to kill me and our baby daughter. It was eventually determined she had a deep rooted mental illness. Nobody knew anything was wrong until she just went off the deep end.
Now here I am raising a ten yr old daughter alone. No time for relationships since I also care for my aged parents who live a few miles away and work full time.
I find it amusing how many women on this site bash men as being all no good, cheaters, whatever. I know damn well I did everything right. Still here I am. Sitting here staring at a computerwhile my little girl watches cartoons. Wishing like hell I had someone to talk to once in a while.
Lonely ? Yeah, I know all about that.
tauresa: Well, the way I see it, this is your life, live it NOW! dont wait for anyone else to fix your problems, be brave because what lies ahead,if you decide to separate, is not easy, but millionsof people have done it before you. The questions you need to ask yourself are: do I seserve to be happy? who is responsable for my happiness and am Iwilling to face reality? . If you have kids, then go to relate, try your best to stay together but if it still not working do something about it. If words do not work with your partner then do an action, leave home for 3 days and stay in a B&B and see if you get a reaction! That can be enough to shock some into talking. All the best, from someone who has been there :-)