whitebow: am married 8 years 2 time and it is not all rosy in the garden. it is not easy never am loyal never cheat on my husband have been tempted by a person at gym who makes me go gaga.
its like we totally lost connection both on different roads, we eat sleep together yet not much sex. blames me half the time for am the women yet it does take to tango not only women. yet it fine for him to watch porno and jerk off . that makes me me so mad yet its normal thing . i so don't understand men ...... am going to seek help for myself finally and start slowly over. when do my stuff then maybe all will change around me my mess up marriage so sad....

shadowkeeper: Spent too many years trying to keep my relationship together. Mostly for the kids I suppose. Long story short, she always had a reason for her affairs and finally I had enough. When it was over it felt like a tremendous weight lifted off my shoulders. Got involved again. This one told me she couldn't have kids right up until she was pregnant. Then things got really crazy. She tried to kill me and our baby daughter. It was eventually determined she had a deep rooted mental illness. Nobody knew anything was wrong until she just went off the deep end.
Now here I am raising a ten yr old daughter alone. No time for relationships since I also care for my aged parents who live a few miles away and work full time.
I find it amusing how many women on this site bash men as being all no good, cheaters, whatever. I know damn well I did everything right. Still here I am. Sitting here staring at a computerwhile my little girl watches cartoons. Wishing like hell I had someone to talk to once in a while.
Lonely ? Yeah, I know all about that.

jetters: ^ These nut job women can get a husband and I cant get a date lol

nobody43: lol

nobody43: crazy

niteowl542004: Well Nobody ever said life would be easy. LOL