faith fullymarried but extremely lonely (Page 7) chunkylover_k: faithfully married but lonley ???? u shud introduce urself to ur PARTNER damn ..... (Edited by chunkylover_k) mongoGIT: Yes, go give your spouse a hug, and tell them something you appreciate about them. Thank him/her for something everyday. Wish my guy would do that. What would you want from your Spouse? To not feel so lonely? nellie77: Just wanted to say that a relationship/ marriage dosn't mean its a bed of roses, infact i think any realtionship with people can be hard work sometimes, and to make it work you need to spend some time together and both GIVE.. I've learned from my friends that its about give and take on both accounts, if there is just one giving, the other will become dissatisfied and uncontent.. baysideblue: Make him jealous!!! make him wonder if he may lose you! lose weight,new hair new hobbies! New wardrobe!!! MEN ONLY WANT WHAT THEY CAN'T HAVE!!!!! Don't make it so easy for him to take you for granted!!! misc123abe: I know what you are going through. My husband and I yelled every night, slept in separate rooms for a year. I think he cheated on me during that time and became addicted to porn. I am still in the marriage and trying to ind the best way out. Isolt: wow... I did not know that many people could be unhappy in a marriage. And my partner and I thought our relationship was bad when we first moved in together because we always fought. Both our parents have had happy marriages and when we first moved in together we always wondered how our parents kept things going after 30 plus years of being together. His parents are inseperable and my parents were always off doing things together . The biggest thing he and I have learned in keeping a relationship going... It's not easy. It is a lot of work, there are going to be bumpy roads, and when you committed yourself remember that you are there not just for the good times but also the hard times How do you know the other person doesn't want what you want did you make an effort to talk to them.? yes it is scary. I used to write letters and emails to my BF because he worked so much and I had no chance to talk to him when he got home. Chances are he also feels lonely and isolated in this relationship. You can't work on it alone. Also Bayside babe has a good point... but be warned that it ONLY works if he still want to be with you. Have a relationship with yourself and have fun making friends and trying new hobbies mannss: i m 22 yrs i have 1 yr old baby.. i m seperated from my husband 9 month backk.. i m staying with my parents.. i want my husband to came to me and my child... thr was some misunderstanding between which created a big issue.. please pray for me annabelle: @ faith fullymarried but extremely lonely Thanks for posting this topic. There are many of us feeling lonely in our marriage/relationships. I agree with some of the above posts - that you need to take care of yourself first, and go out and do things for yourself,- work, friends, hobbies. Meet new people. Rebuild your confidence and self esteem. If you still feel that the future with your husband is not fulfilling for you then you should leave him. You only live once, and you deserve to be happy. scifilover: It's amazing how many people feel this way. I really thought it was just women. My marraige is so complex. Can't fit it into a post. There will never be a time where we are on the same page. But yet, We have children and major respinsiblilities. There is no way out. He is a great guy. But has no emotional attachments to me. It is the way it is. KatTheWitch: if things are that bad leave the marriage, and don't say you're staying for the kids sake to have both parents, kids know these things and pick up on them no matter how normal you try and act around them. You are damaging your children by staying there. meetjoe123: I agree with some folks here.but I always find a way to be sexual with my wife ..eventhough we got kids... denofblackfox: I have been married for 10 years and the last 4 I too feel alone.She has 2 older children both in the 20's from a previous marriage. I moved from B.C. to Ontario to be with her and gave up my family and friends and feel like i have been fighting to stay together and am fighting a one sided fight.She admits to not knowing what happened and not sure how to fix it.I have no one to talk to here as all my friends are her's and each one goes right back to her.Am not ready to call it quits but without any other results i am not seeing any choice. chattygirlxx: to denofblackfox s for you may be an idea to seek some marriage counselling even if you do it alone - life is just too short to be miserable denofblackfox: thank you chattygirlxx but i have tried that and as much as it has helped me keep the hope if she will not go or try there is not much else to be done. whitebow: It is not easy married life up and downs like a roller coaster.I guess time does tell what and how we should deal with issues have to be strong. Heartbroken1234: No, it is not easy being married. I have been married for almost 16 years, and have discovered that the man I married is unfaithful. We have two sons. I want to stay in the marriage for them, but I am so tried of faking it. savy453: you have 3 choices , ask him if he wants to see a marriage consular, get a divorce. or stay living the way you are . non miss perfect: i dont believe in working on relationships, dont like it - go, otherwise u'll regret about waisted time | Self-Improvement Chat Room Similar Conversations |