faith fullymarried but extremely lonely

1onlythelonely6
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1onlythelonely6
1onlythelonely6: Married but wondering why. We have no relationship. We have 4 kids. We dont sleep together we are floating around in the same house that is it. Cant take this anymore. It feels like constant rejection like im not good enough to even have a conversation with.
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Yesenia[3
Yesenia[3: You are worth having a conversation with
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zipper1973
zipper1973: Im hearing you, similar situation. how do you get it all back and did we have it in the beginning. I have 2 kids and cant get a conversation with hubby if i tried, i feel like the boxes get ticked when he gets home hi how are you how are the kids, and thats it.

Have you tried talking it out?
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memberX
memberX: Being one of main antagonist in a old drama play called "One happy family" is a stupid role.
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fσυя тωєиту
fσυя тωєиту: TAKE IT FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN THERE THE BOTH OF YOU HAVE TO WANT IT BACK IF YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER ISNT WILLING TO MEET YOU HALF WAY THAN THEY DONT WANT IT BACK . YOU HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF IF ITS WORTH BEING LONELY AND DEPRESSED OR DO YOU WANT TO TRY TO FIX IT . MINE WAS NOT WORTH SAVING SO I MOVED ON WITH MY LIFE . GOOD LUCK TO YOU ALL
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mtgirl2
mtgirl2: I never expected to be so alone in a marriage. I'm new to 'chatting'. Such testimony, at least for me, how lonely I feel. I'm so tired. My relationship is a constant drain. It would be so nice to be a priority. How do you cal it quits?
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Kac123
Kac123: Feel the same....
Tried to talk to the hubby, and now he's thinking to move out for few months. Oh yeah.... that's gonna help....
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Zen777
Zen777: if it wasn't for chat wire i think i would have shot myself by now.at least i get noticed here.
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robertsworld707
robertsworld707: Nothing to see here. Post deleted by user.
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musezeye
musezeye: im here to share my poetry,be a friendly chat,an sounding board,peace out people.
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quigley
quigley: maybe marriage is just a sham..........good for kiddies to have a mum and dad but worthless in all other areas. you get one life and you decide if you are going to be happy or miserable. nonetheless i wish all ,the best they can find.
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jim22390
jim22390: listen you don't have it that bad I been married 11 years with 3 beautiful children and my wife has cheated on me twice? she says she loves me and she doesn't want me to leave I thought I had the perfect marriage we never fight we always got along spoke to each other and look what happend that's not a kick yourhead I don't know what is !
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mtgirl2
mtgirl2: Nothing to see here. Post deleted by user.
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Heather481
Heather481: Know how it feels- if you need to talk feel free to msg. me
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MayHo
MayHo: I felt the same way too..tried talking to my husband who's a workaholic. He doesnt understand how I can feel so down when I hv all the material things... I am depressed..I hope to talk to some1
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Meli
Meli: I've been reading the posts here and can relate to many of you! Add me if you want!
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DonaldaG
DonaldaG: My husband spends 8 hours at work and then goes to happy hour several times a month. I haven't seen him yet. The other day I texted him twice because he didn't call and tell me where he was like he always does. It makes me wonder if he won't be having an affair soon with someone at work. He works mostly with women.

Its funny because he wants to have a baby. But I feel like I'll be raising it alone while he's out gallavanting. Anway, whatever. If it gets any worse I will just leave.
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savy453
savy453: i ve been there 6 years ago now single sometimes lonely suggest counseling if that don;t work well then next step is urs ,stay or leave but it's a rough road out there.
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splurrrk
splurrrk: wife left me and the kids years ago, youngest was two . now three years later ,I am soo glad she did .just me and the kids living along in peace. we were married 17 years.
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getbusy1
getbusy1: I had no idea that there were so many people in the same situation as myself! How's this for a kick in the head . . . we met, went out, i told her on our first date-i'm never getting married and i do not want any kids (my bad childhood). She was fine with that. We continued dating and she ended up moving in with me. 3 yrs later, i come home from work and She asked me to marry her, so i did (15 yrs ago), of course, we have 2 kids now. Then i find out that she's been seeing her 1st ever love (took her virginity) from college for at least the past 3 yrs!! Talk about depressed . . . i feel like a shmuck!!!
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splurrrk
splurrrk: Pitfalls of modern life!! Love your kids and go forward !
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getbusy1
getbusy1: That's just what i'm doin, thx
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sunrise317
sunrise317: relationshis are not open one or the other is closed to suggestion I was having trouble with my husband in the bedroom department the whole relationship was suffering untill my friend suggested that i openly suggest to my husband that the s@^ ewas boring for me dont know about you to my husband he was so shocked that he accused me of cheating i said no and that i was buy a few products and if he didnt mind http://bit.ly/ecqXEe the funny thing is that we were both clearly frustrated with the same old wham bang ... by being open minded it saved our marrage
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juliesgirl
juliesgirl: I have the same problem.I feel so lonely.My husband puts his job before anything. He works from 7 in the morning till midnight.He also works on the weekends. If they ask him to stay for overtime he takes it.He crawls into bed at 1a.m.Gets up at 6:45a.m.If I say something he gets mad.I have been home on disability since 2005.I think he can't get over the fact that I can't work anymore. Money is his God.We have no pysical contact at all. No s*w,no touching,no holding. So I keep my emotions in.We are just sharing a house.All my kids are grown.We should be enjoying life at this stage of the game.Any suggestions would be very helpfull.
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