I need help :'(

Da_Inscrutable_1
Da_Inscrutable_1: What do you do when you feel like everything seems so dull and things bore you so easily? I cant ever find anything that will keep me busy and at it for more than an hour. Even when im talking on the phone i run out of lines and lose interest so fast and end up hanging up but only to find myself wanting to talk a day later. Also, there are times when id just wanna be alonee, and sometimes i feel like the human race is totally alienable to me. I feel like i cant trust them. i cant be emotionally secure with them. I used to be a rebel (reason why i say used to be is cos i just dnt know what i am anymore. everything confuses me) Id hate people in general and would spend minutes to myself thinking of ideas that'll support why i should continue hating them. I cant last long in any convos. Everything..is..so..messed up now This pattern of social behavior is killing me. what do i do?
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IDevourSouls_
IDevourSouls_: I really wish I had helpful advice to give.
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Da_Inscrutable_1
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khguig
khguig: Why am I suspicious about whether this is even true? >_>......
Anyway, just keep trying new things. If nothing is holding your attention, truly, then you either 1) have some sort of attention disorder 2) just need a lot of variety, and there's nothing wrong with that. Just work with it.
As for not being able to talk to people for long, it's probably because you need to talk to some other sort of people than you have been. And if you still don't feel engaged for long periods of time, just realise you're not a talker >_> nothing wrong with that.
On another note, if you find yourself bored with one thing, multitasking is your friend. Just do more things at once, might help.
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Da_Inscrutable_1
Da_Inscrutable_1: its true >.>
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khguig
khguig: I do not doubt that you believe it to be true.
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khguig
khguig: At any rate, I replied assuming it is.
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Da_Inscrutable_1
Da_Inscrutable_1: wtf -_- i dnt need ur personal opinion on whether or not its true..thnx for commenting assuming it is..that was all i needed. (:
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khguig
khguig: lol, indeed
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GoogleADSenser
GoogleADSenser: Professional help. Sounds like depression or cabin fever to me.
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Hyenablood
Hyenablood: Da inscrutable, it's time to go talk to your doctor, prehapes some mild pills to change the chemicals in your brain or body. Sounds like mild depression to me, I've had feelings like that in the past.
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unicorn350
unicorn350: why am i suspicious abt it either?...
U seem to be going through what i might have been dealing with lately though ur case is worse than mine. I think the reason y u can't fucus on doing sth is that you havent discover the thing that enthuses you yet. Live your life to the fullest and dont be too picky about stuff(im not saying u r), then you'll find so much contentment and fullness weighting in ur heart that you won't swerve from subjects to subjects feeling like nothing's gonna look up or come out right. Know what you want first, and you'll be able to take control of yourself and your will. Be inscrutable but dont be inscrutable to yourself

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future_psychology
future_psychology: dear hope u be okey very soon
Sometimes ppl just wait for a change that makes difference in their life
i once felt that my life is meaningless and boring so I've decided to do kind of dumb stuff but it works .....it might look as if its nothing but i know alot of ppl doing the same .....try to change your routine by changing channels u used to wach songs u used to listen too try to talk to different ppl and play games u were playing when u were young or go to places reminded u with pleasant things happens in your life ..........................
i think the most important thing is when you take your diary to watch sunset or to be in somewhere where you can be alone with the nature and just take a fresh air and go deep with your thinking with your self ........am sure that gonna make you different person ...........
lots of love .......the dumb
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Jukey Momma
Jukey Momma: U know i didn't have that problem growing up, I was always full of energy, someone could've said i was AD&HD, but i was always outside playing, had friends outside, didn't have cell phones, video games , computers ... if we wanted to do something fun we had to think it out and create it and do it and have fun. We had to mentally use our noggin to think up things of fun things to do.

Kids today are so technology dependent it's sad.
Could u leave your house without your cell phone?
Would u flip out?
Would u go back and get it?
Is it a security feature u need?
Do u really need internet on cell phone just cause you arent at home on puter?

People online aren't the cure for your issues, u need real ppl to interact with.

Change who u hang out with, Go out to parks, go to libraries meet different ppl.

Maybe try NO technology for a week or two , see how u fare, creating stuff to do to have fun, goin out without a phone to meet ppl. Do things the old fashioned way and see if that helps ya. Just a suggestion, don't gotta do it.

Love ya friend,

Becca

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future_psychology
future_psychology: i liked what u said Becca and yes i a greed .......sometimes i feel much better when i forget my phone home
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Jukey Momma
Jukey Momma: My kids dont have cell phones , my kids do however finally have their own computers , but are not on them much, they have their PS3's and play online sometimes. As far as being technology dependent they arent. They are 20 and 21 yrs old... not technology dependent
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alanpaten
alanpaten: Hello
I think that there are many possibility.This can change.You need just to change place. I propose you to visit my country and you will find joyfull people,solidarity and exchange.Just contact me your live will change
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fairgojustsaying
fairgojustsaying: I like my own company and people think this is strange even anti social, I just say, it's ok I'm going to therapy but it will take some time lol I interact with people occasionally and that's fine, but mostly I enjoy my quiet time and doing my own thing. Be kind to yourself it may be just that you feel pressured to interact, just a suggestion. I love going for long walks in the bush, as we call it here it Australia and I always find something interesting to look at and discover about.
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GinnyTx
GinnyTx: wow there's so much to process with this one..no one liners or paragraphs..from personal experience from being on top of the world personally, career, and then bam, starting over and over again, it's the attitude. It may suck for awhile that's OK, you're the change, and only you. Dig out or dig in.
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black9
black9: I am in the same situation for the most part. I live in a place where I do not like the people. Only because I was raised with all types of people and where I lived people was cool with each other. However I now live in a different place and the people are rude.
This dullness that you speak of I feel too. I want to ask you if anything in your life has happened within a few year that was bad. There may be an underlying problem. I like you do not trust anyone for fear that I will regret trusting someone again. This dullness or heaviness as I call it brings me down. I have no ambition to go any where and any person that seems to care about you only is interested in whats going on. basically people just want to be nosy. However I am in need of people to talk to and wish that I had many friends because now i am all alone. i have had family members leave me including my husband. Nothing i have done but I help a lot of people then get kicked in the ass.
So I decided to go to a therapist. First i told him straight up that i am not there for medications but I do realize hat I need a lot of help. Talking to a professional can be very helpful if you find a good fit. They are trained to teach us different venues on how to deal with certain things. it sounds to me that you are very concerned by things that are affecting your life. It also sounds to me that you want so much to change. That is why I suggest to you as I am doing now is to leave all these people with no knowledge and no expertise and deal with a professional. You will feel better about yourself eventually. I tried talking to people that I know and if the did not hear the I told you so or the oh wows... I realize that talking to those people was not helping me.
I have a long way to go because I have been having negativity back to back. Including my husband after 18 years leaving myself and our son. So there is something triggering what is going on with you otherwise you would not feel the way you do. Like myself I'm not crazy but I am depressed because the behaviors of people that I live in my life. I do a lot of talking too and it makes me wonder what a person thinks when I talk to them I know that I talk a lot because I am lonely. So too make a long story short I think you should seek professional help to live a better life than what you are now.You have to break the hard ice and make the phone call. If you do not have insurance there are some agencies that service for free. Advocate for yourself no one knows you better than you. I wish you happiness and a better life as I do for myself take care
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jamesjiang
jamesjiang: so do i, i don't work for 2 years now, i don't want do anything, i know it is not good, but i don't have any insterest do anything, how can i do?
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black9
black9: I suggest that since this has been going on for sometime that you seek professional help. You will get to the bottom of it and live better than u r now. Some people are reluctant to see a counselor or therapist but they can help. The quicker you seek help the closer you get to being better. Good luck
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bluereed909
bluereed909: Think? maybe thats whiy thinzz arr conF? s.
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Powerpuff girl
Powerpuff girl: Hi DI 1 I use too feel this way too when I was about 19, very depressed I then began investigating why I felt so worthless and why I was nt enjoying life. I started off reading books on the subject and got more information and amazingly I started transforming myself, I started doing things for myself changed my image and circle of people and day by day I grew stronger and more confident in myself. I have since taken up life coaching and various classes in growing myself and I now grow others. No one can advise you and no one can help you if you dont help yourself. Life is wonderfull and we dont have to live for others, but if you start loving yourself this changes your whole life. People dont understand the concept of self love and then the rest will follow but hope that you find what you looking for.
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Blackshoes
Blackshoes: Beside asking for God Help theres good medication Like Zolof .I'll be praying for you .
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Farrah_
Farrah_: I think I'm in the same situation as you, I don't feel anything towards anything.. I don't even care if I didn't see my family for a long time, I don't desire anything not food, companionship, material things or even money.. sometimes when I'm in the middle of crowd or gathering I feel disconnected, and I bored easily.. I am very anti-social but I know I can be the best actress just so people won't start badgering me. I dunno if I even like my situation I just don't care.
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