Help! I'd been dumped! Iloveroses: It's been a very long time since I got jilted. I've forgotten how to deal with it. Any help pls?  marshallhale: 1- Red wine (lot of it) 2- Good music 3- Your best friends 4- Good Food Combine them all and have a great night. Forget the basterd ever existed and remind your self that you are a gorgeouse woman who only deserves the best. If that doesn't work ......pay some kids to go toiletpaper his house!  john1576: I think you are supposed to look sad and act like your world has fallen in. I don't think you are supposed to go to the movies or Ball Game for a few weeks, it looks like you are having a good time. Apart from that I don't know. Iloveroses: Thank you Marshale. But I don't drink alcohol! I can't tolerate it. Plastering his place with dunny paper sounds good. Problem is, he lives overseas, I'm in Australia. I guess, I can dilute the wine with half coke? sillychild: spend a few hours thinking about your relationship and why it ended, drop any bad feelings for the person and remember all the good memories without the taint of the bad. store them in a special place and be happy you got to have good things even if it didnt last  8_KittyKat_8: do what im doing and just chat to people, have laughs, drink a bit but not too much, get a new haircut or something or treat yourself to somthing you have wanted for a while.  countrycutie7385: I look at every relationship as a life lesson. So when it ends just another lesson learned
babycakes23: Trust me, whoever it was did you a favour. You would not want to be with someone who doesn't understand your true worth. Now get out there and surround yourself loves ones...and you'll get back on the sattle. babycakes23: Trust me, whoever it was did you a favor. You would not want to be with someone who doesn't understand your true worth. Now get out there and surround yourself loves ones...and you'll get back on the horse. sweetmaplesyrup: Hi Iloveroses!!!!!hope you're doing ok today. Lots of good advice above. I did some of them and now? I'm alright. Store the good memories. Now is the time to reach your potential and bring out those hidden talents. hinatahyuga: you know i kinda feel like u alot like ive been dumped. and it hurts too much its why ive kinda given up on love. but cheer up life is life and you should love it.have fun and leave the past behind it only comes back to haunt u if u let it.  Qz: Happened to me several times. Finally i learned relationships are something we have. DO NOT let relationships define who you are. stand tall  kimpossiblelove: My only girlfriend dumped me 11 years ago. After all this time I am still not over her. Some times I lay in my bed and cry myself to sleep. Iloveroses: Hello everyone, thanks for all your support and advice. I haven't logged back because kinda got to busy. I got on with my life, most sensible thing to do. The object of my affections is actually still hovering around. But I am not holding my breath. I guess deep down I really want it to work, but see what happens. I'll keep you posted. Thanks again.  Yogi Boogie: u been dumped welcome to life buddy  go to school again build strongly ya basics and try new target oriented gulz   AshleySarah: The best thing is to do is just forget him hun and be with the people that make you happy. Go shopping with the loves ones go out with your true freidns be around the people that relly matter top you, but forget the people in ur life that never cared cuz they wont really matter to you. You got friends here to talk to you got your girlys wat else can you ask for .x Iloveroses: Hello everyone, thanks for all your support. I did not come back here for awhile because things had been well, we got back together. But I guess just not meant to be. So here I am, gluing the pieces of my heart again. Well, the glue is dry now (did it few weeks ago). So I'm actually a lot OK now. Just to let everyone whose heart is broken right now that it is not the end of the world. It might feel like it, but it is not forever. huforyou: Well there is alot of ways to get over someone, just find something that makes you feel great about the future. Check this out... Earn $22,300 a month for only $25 with this Ligit Home Business! AshMax is a FREE marketing system that will be able to help you financially and give you a worry free life. With AshMax you will be able to make $22,000 a month residually, every month, within 100 days. http://ashmax.com/rakgppkprr20010 AshMax uses Global Domains International and Freeway to Succes, both of which are legit, FTC approved companies. How can you make $22,300 in 100 days? It’s simple Step 1: Join GDI Step 2: Join FTS Step 3: Invite 5 people in 20 days It’s as simple as that. AshMax is a program that has been created by Ash Mufareh GDI world number ONE, and if you Google Ash Muferah you’ll find that he dominates at least the first 5 pages of Google. Ash has been marketing a long time. He’s made JILLIONS in GDI, consistently being on the leaderboard week after week. http://ashmax.com/rakgppkprr20010 See you at the TOP! (Post deleted by staff ) | Self-Improvement Chat Room Similar Conversations |