how can i feel better bout myself
weather234: You have to like yourself first...then you will start feeling better about yourself..you are a pretty girl tell yourself that every day and you will learn to believe it.
emira: they r right.. u such a pretty girl.. if u tthink u r pretty.. then u will be..think of +ve things bout ur self n believe in ur self.. trust me.. u r pretty enough 2 make boys fall 4 u..
adrianablue: do u ever go to a mirror and tell yourself u look good today? there are alot of times i dont think i look good either but i tell myself that i do look good, and im very pretty.all u can do is think positive
Rockmachine: In Canada--where i live there will be a rather large commercial campaign regarding "self image" directed towards younger girls this fall. Your post reminded of why/
I read some responses..and although you look good to them, the truth is that girls have been conditioned their whole life to think of beauty in a certain (and incorrect) way. These images of what beauty is are of course wrong. If you don't believe me, then look at the differences between sexy symbols in the 50's versus now. At the end of the conversation (of this topic matter) you will find that what you think you are expecting to look like is actually the product of marketing. Whether it be make up, movies, weight loss products or clothing...you have been conditioned (like 99% of girls) to think beauty comes from a product. Of course there are a long series of events to get us to this point...but thats what it comes down to.
This is a problem that has caused more teenage suicides amoung young girls than depression (as young as 12 years old in one case i heard of). This is also why you can see a perfectly healthy young girl go into the washroom to induce vomitting after a meal. Even though most men in the room would describe her as attractive...but she doesn't see it. Shes comparing herself with the most elite models/actresses in the world.
Most people don't get that when they see a post like this.
There's alot of great information on the subject-i suggest looking at it with an open mind.
Goodluck to you.
Missmapple: Hi!!!I maybe late to post a comment here but better be than never. Everyone has his or her preference of beauty. Usually, people would see the outside first. I very much believe that it's not what they think but how you accept or appreciate the person in you. I think............you're pretty.
adrianablue: it doesnt matter what u look like on the outside, its what's inside of u that counts, u can be the ugliest person on the outside but its how u look and feel deep inside.
SouthernHospitality: cllucycrouch wrote:
"i don't think i am good looking bout people tell me i am"
You don't need Dr. Phil to tell you that this is just a cry for attention.
928 as the mack: you tell your self that your not atractive enough, and you will be rite about that, the only one's who worry about the way we look is really our selves , I mean your the main character of your own story and everyone else is 2nd, so stop lying to your self.
you know who the worst critic of all is ? it's the inner us, we have 3 people that tell us this, a judge , a jurry , and a victome , you put this victome of countinueis problems , the victom still says " why me boo hoo, im ugly and i don't think I'm as good looking as everyone else boo hoo!", then your jurry says " yes she's or he is very ugly , GUILTY! of being ugly!", and then the judge comes in and tell you the same thing! " Well me the jurry has agreed that you are UGLY! yes you are guilty of being ugly! send this person to the prison of ulgyness like you tell your self!
that's all just an illusion on what's really going on in your head, your saying to your self that your this wich is not true.
tell your self you buetiful person, that's the main person you are telling this info to, not anyone else, give your self good posotive words and everything will be okay.
if anyone has anything to say about what I just replyed, please feal free to send it into my inbox, thank you and have a nice day.
MnFriends:): m friend u just have to say to urself ' i am a beautyful girl n very thanks to God for ths beauty God gve m thats all. Everyday n evrytime when u feel bad. Do u know its gud to hear ppl say that u r beautyful but its more gud if u say u r beautyful coz u r.
calypso84: Hmmmmm that's strange:You don't feel good with your body but in the same time you upload pics where you are only in the underwear with a description:"check out my new pictures guys"?
Or it's maybe you just like hearing or reading posts under your pics:"You are so sexy"...?
mel100: I agree with calypso and southern,atention seeker no doubt about it.....and if you have a boy friend,why are you inviting other boys to check out your pics,and I would say you are average looking!!!!!
calypso84: Well mel100 I think that she just wants to hear it over & over again:"Oh you are so pretty!So sexy!"It's like a music for her ears or a balm for her eyes...or whatever!And even if she likes showing her body to the strangers,she should at least be thoughtful enough not to post such topic on forum.It's just ridiculous & hopeless!
Moomin: If you look online for affirmation that you're "good looking", you're seriously messed up.
You look like an ugly albino. No offence. Hope that makes you feel better.
Mike0080: Go to the gym, get into better shape, get some new clothes and just feel better about yourself and that will show through, and then when people see you and you catch them looking at you, you'll feel better about yourself and that should boost your confidence.
justsomeone11: lol that's so boring. i mean, everyone telling you you're so pretty just to make you feel prettier.
i don't care what others say about me. anyone can try to persuade me i'm pretty, i just won't believe them.
and all that - you should love yourself and others will love you too- things are bullshit.
if i wanna be happier with my body, i lose on weight. if i'm not satisfied with my face i find something that i like on it .i like my lips , my teeth and my pale skin. you should find something you love about yourself too. the truth is,i'm a perfectionist and care about details very much. that´s why i'm planning to buy some contact lenses, that's why i want to have a plastic surgery . cause i'm don't want to be okay or pretty i want to be perfect. iknow this sounds lame and crazy but that's me. we live in a messed up world where society ruined everything. where looks is the most important. i dunno, maybe you just want to feel pretty but i'm looking for something else :/ i think you can do whatever you want to do. if you want to lose weight, you can fz@x$x* do it. i mean, if that's your dream. you just have to believe in yourself and be stubborn. and about your face. well, if you don't like something change it.
motherfingsuperwoman: If you don't love yourself it doesn't matter what everyone here tells you, unless you just wanted people to tell you what you already knew.