Is here any 1 who hates theır father? (Page 7) kelsyross: i cant stand my real dad he left me and my mom wen he found out they was goin to hav me and he thinks im a mistake im like wow wut a father u r and he dont pay child support Gracell: I love my dad and proud become his daughter. Although, He is not a perfect person. He is perfect for me and for his family. I love you Dad. I hope God gives the best place for you beside Him. I miss you Dad... Lolita Lexi: My dad doesnt want to be in my life, he drinks and becomes mentally and verbally abusive. He pushed me out and made a new family and forgot all about me. doesnt call me on my birthday doesnt see me doesnt give me respect so i have a little disapointment in my heart twards him. Fiora123: My father has not been there for me for about 10 years of my life. As a child I would say I hated him for the things he had done, until one day I realized that I would rather not have him there. If he was not at my side it was for a reason. It would have been terrible to have had him around if he did not want to be around. I have the right to do with my life what I want with it. He should have the same right, and if that included not having me as a daughter then it is fine with me. I could only wish him the happiness that I had in my life. (Edited by Fiora123) Fiora123: This is just my opinion but I don't understand why people associate a parents value with" they didn't pay child support". If they don't want to be there they don't want to be there. Just let them go and move on with your own life. And don't say it's easier said than done. My father tried to kill my mother once. We left and we never asked for something as insignificant as money. We didn't have to have any kind of contact with him, this allowed my mother to heal and get on with her life. I did the same in time. Peace of mind and tranquility in the house. Is it really worth a check in the mail and constant arguments? p.s. (I am not saying that it is always like this just in general though.) (Edited by Fiora123) kaila96: I hate my dad. he hits me if i talk around him, and hes turned me into someone i hate. He gets his kicks from swearing at me and calling me the worst names you could possibly imagine. He isnt even my real dad, hes my step dad. I hate him with every single bit of hate ive got, and thats never going to change nyx at nite: i didn't hate my dad, but he did so things to fuck me up emotionally. i'm still feeling the effects today even if all this took place when i was a child. somethings will shape your life forever Anghellick: In the Beginning i've always hated my father, but then after a few hard work I had the same tought about bouth my dad and my mom i love them equally, as a son. totonelly: I love my dad. Sometimes he embarrasses me, and sometimes he is a little overbearing. I love him all the more for it, because he cares enough about my life to be embarrassing and overbearing. My father was suppose to die in 1998 from a rare cancer that was supposedly untreatable. But it was treated and he is now cancer-free. I get to spend more precious time with him. Even if you and your dad don't exactly see eye to eye, he is not always gonna be in your life. So don't spend your time quarreling... seize the moment while the moments are still there. mary: how can i hate someone..i never knew dont even know his name..hate ...no .....just sorry i never knew him I LOVE CATS: My father isn't or never was perfect but I still love him. I may lose him because he's sick with prostrate cancer that's spread to the bone. It's fitting I help him with baths and getting to appointments. MistressDee: I used to hate My dad. But, no more. I loved him throughout. However, that said, I still love him, but I just pity him. I have learned to let God, and let go. pjt1965: My father...would stand 'in the path of a bullet' for his children. He is the ROCK that we all lean on. I know that this is rare, especially nowadays but, it is not unheard of. I am a very 'BLESSED' human being! brokellabones: it depends..when i was little my mom cheated on my dad with my step dad and they are stil together..adn my dad went to jail because he threw a bottle at my stepdads car, also with the possesion on marjuana so yeah im confused pjt1965: A 'dad'..or a father is someone u can turn to. When u cant take care of you? they pick up the slack...and make you stronger..... Who takes the blame, for you , to protect you? MistressDee: And so the asshats don't try to be all sorts of NOT FUNNY, no I was not including the women in that statement. kittyfriendly: No I don't hate my father. Actually, I don't have a father. My father was killed when my mom was pregnant with me. I wish I new him. I would love him very much. | Parenting Chat Room 15 People Chatting Similar Conversations |