Is here any 1 who hates theır father? (Page 2)
ayrora: thats probably the only reason we dont c eye to eye im him as a girl 4 21 years i was told i was worthless n unimportant n as a child that does damage thinkin some1 u love hates u but as i grew up n he stopped drinking things got esier n the only reason we dont fight is bc we dont talk
ayrora: im not sayn find no reason its just with situations with myne n i know of others the only way not to fight is not to speak i have no other option if we r talking were yelling so i avoid him n do my own thing to each their own way of handling things some can talk it out he refuses so it dosnt bother me
Rod11111: just wandering thu and seen this,, not sayin it for an arguement,,, and I aint a girl BTW,, but anyhow,, I had never met my father till a few years ago,, he had run away before I was born, but I don't HATE him,, as I dont HATE anyone,,, AND I aint as preacher,,, so please try and understand,, IF you HATE,, have a look in the mirror,, it very well may have started with your father,, BUT it ends with YOU,,, you wanna be the same person? keep fightin the fight, otherwise,, let go of the past,,, I dont say this annonymisly,, or however that is spelt,,, LOL,, rethink your actions please
VinceMoon: It's strange. I thought my father despised me for some time, but it turns out he wanted to divorce my mother and was too afraid to tell me how he was feeling. When I realized that my father was human, I no longer feared him and he became more open with me. Some people are not as lucky as me, though, and that can be a shame. Any idiot can make a baby, but it takes a real man to be a dad.
GreenEyed Angel: My birth father tried to kill me, and my stepfather abused me (not sexually). I don't hate them. I just want nothing to do with them.
ApachesGirl: I can't stand my father. He left us when I was 9 and before that he was abusive and a drunk. I have two beautiful babies that he has NOTHING to do with... nor will he have anything to with. We even live in different states. The further I can get away from him the better because if he EVER put a hand on my kids like he did me when I was little I would put him 6 feet under.
caramelcream1992: well ion think it be the father we hate ithink its their ways cse i hate my fatfher ways
ApachesGirl: I didn't say I "hate" my father... I said I couldn't stand him. Hate is too strong of a word for me to use. I don't hate anyboby... There are just a few that I can't stand.
hjs2396: i hate my dad. but i cnt say what i really feel about him and that i want to live with my mom and i hate him alot
JeanYves72: Minr rejected me at 12, played mind games with my sister and then with our kids (she went along) Bagged my mother constantly and I've had no contact in about 15 years. He died to me when he started using my son as a tool to play his games.
Lucid: I really do not know my father...have not seen him since I was 8. I did bear a lot of resentment towards him as I got older due to broken promises etc. I do not think about him much. Life is way to short to bear a grudge. He will end up a lonely old man.
JeanYves72: I agree Lucid. My father has his family in Belgium unhappy with how he has treated me and even my sister and nephews have nothing to do with him now.
Lucid: Not only did he do it to me he did it to my 3 sisters and 3 brothers...he is a spem donor and nothing more.
JeanYves72: Just like mine and my little boys biological sperm donor. Usually the pricks that have the most kids.
ApachesGirl: My father walked out on my older sister when she 9 months old. My sister only has anything to do with him if she needs something. I don't even give him that. He has proven to me that his beer is more important then me and my brother and sister... not to mention all the grandkids and there are 5 of those.