Is here any 1 who hates theır father? Wampum6: Nice to hear that, JD. That's a great relationship you have, and it must be a two-way relationship, too!  hitsugaya252: Haha sasuke's dad is more like a son. Everyone's dad is not like yours jd. I'm searching that rarity portion and trying to find the solution. I've seen with my own eyes, that few dads saying unbearably paınful words. Not knowıng his child may hate him.  blonde goddess: i didnt speak to mine for over 8 years (private reasons) then he died. it hurts like hell. nothing is worth the time lost. i'd suggest you try to make amends while you can hitsugaya252: Oh nothing is worth u said. You forgived him now its worth..its not your fault afterall, it was that tıme. blonde goddess: i thought the same low rider but still hurt when he died. but then we all have different reasons and i'm sure you have good ones yourself. although i can't take it back i still had good reasons to cut him out my life. had we tried to make amends i am sure we still would have ended up not speaking.
 Aura_: I hope I'm not offending anyone with this who had real reasons to be distancing themselves form their fathers (like abuse or criminal behavior), but most of the time when a person says he or she hates a parent, it is usually because they are so very very much alike. It is much easier to hate the parent than to admit they posses the very same flaws. flashie: i hated mine for a long time when he killed himself, i dont mean to be morbid. it was a long time ago and id like to think im over it and learned valuable lessons pos ones too from it. it took a decade but i finally gave up hating him, and tbh feel a bit guilty now about that but wont beat myself up over it. lifes too short to hate anyone now i think, you just gotta feel sorry for them. hate is very counterproductive imo and only damages the person carrying it around hitsugaya252: That was abit cold low r.. Flash really shared his experıence. Strange, people r not happy of what they have and want to be happy of what they want. My frens dad passed away when he was child and in every fathers day he says ı mıss u dad. †Jack☠OfHearts†™: I admire and love mine forever, death means nothing when feelings and memories are forever.  Kimber: I don't hate my biological father. He just isn't apart of my life and never has been. It was his choice. He could of easily been apart of it. He choose not to be. When I was younger I use to have hard feelings about it. I use to want to attempt to make him apart of it. Now I have come to terms with it. No need to mess with something that isn't broken. Life has been great without him.  vergessene_xo: I use to be a daddies girl but then we faught alot as I got older. I became alot of trouble and I was quite the strain on my parents relationship & I later realized that. My dad got sick, and I started failing my courses in college and eventually just didn't go back. Later on I moved out of my parents house and I got to think about what my father really meant to me. He opened up to me more explaining his childhood wasn't easy either. He explained why and I realized how my life wasn't easy but there was a reason my father was always so hard on me. It's because he wanted things to be different for me. I just took it the wrong way. That he was being a jerk, when really he was protecting me . ShyOne_: I dont hate nor I like him. I just dont care anymore. He can be abusive physically and sometimes mentally. I deal with it since I can remember. I just dont feel the 'REAL' love from a father thats all. I will care for him when the time is needed but I dont treat him nicely nor badly. Morsy: I hated my dad but has been stated by some it eats away at you and I stopped hating him and chose to say that I didn't like him as person at all. Simple reason no other human being has the right to treat another in the way he treated his family, thankfully I broke the chain that my other siblings couldn't and have gone my own way despite the horror inflicted on me under his "care". meryemj73: so true hate is a strong word, my father isn't someone i look upto nor would ask for advice. I accept now he is who he is, but at some point in ones life you do feel mixed emotions. after 20 yrs he came to Syria for a holiday and needed a place to stay, so he comes and stays with me, and geez it was tough, in our culture you have to respect and all that crap your parents, But i believe it should be earned. He went back to Australia 3 months ago, not one phone call no nothing, like he never existed in my life. I'll be sad when he dies, ofcourse i will, but its just horrible sometimes to admit outloud that he is a terrible father.  jurellsmama: I hate my father and he knows it he has not even met my son or the one on the way, and never will  Ace: i read the comments with mixed emotions. i am goin to pour out. continue at ur personal risk.. As far as i can remember, dad has been really authoritative and a bit rude. He has his own plus points and minus like everyone, but i think somewhere, he forgot that he was a parent and not a boss. I was never born to be his slave or listen and obey everything he said. I had my own likes and dislikes like every human being, and I didnt want anything imposed on me.. its jus sad that he never bothered to find out what i liked or what i wanted to be.. past age 12, like in the past 15 years, i dont think i have spent more than 10 months with him and with the distance, he knows very less of what I am.. I could have walked away from everyone, but I wanted to take care of my mom and my two little sisters. But even with the distance, he managed to influence me. and somewhere along the way, i learned to ignore him. He inflicts too much pain, mentally. I wouldnt have taken it from anyone else i guess.. and it goes on.. today i am goin to do something that will piss him off big time, but I need to do it. I need to keep my mom safe from him, so i am flying her out without his knowledge. When he comes back from office, She wouldnt be home and I hope he deals with it.. peacefully.. hitsugaya252: Most of the times, fathers spit up their poison when their child didnt gave them enough wealth. When their child did something great, My son.if not then kick them. I hate that part most. One should never plan to become a parent unless he's got an unwavering courage to grow their child lovingly. jurellsmama: I have personal issues too on why I hate him so much, everyone says I'm too hard on him butthat is only because they don't know the whole story. pureflowstudios: in 2005 my mom passed away and me and my family went to spokane washington for a visit and my grandma as nice as she is talked me into taking my daughter to visit my dad sinse its been about ten years sinse i seen em.and i had a friend over i havnt seen in awhile and i go to do something and my friend comes and tells me my dads an a^xyw#z telling me that he was talking shit about my kids saying they didnt look like me.it made me so mad we came back to san diego that same day and my grandma asked how it went i just told her i wont be seeing him ever again in my life.my grandma is all i got and i can tell she knows ive been feeling real depressed lately.and its not cuz him at all i could care less but thats why i hate my dad.i call my brothers dad dad.hes there for me whenever i need em.weather i run out of gas or if i have to catch tha fade with 10 boxers hes got my back.but yesterday i left my house thinking my girlfriend was cheating and she said go and i miss my daughters already ive never been apart from them and now that iam i feel there gunna think iam a cockaroach like my dad is | Parenting Chat Room Similar Conversations |
