My daughter is a unfit mother what would you do? (Page 5) steve6068: Ok... Thats great you are concerned.. However, if you do not do something about it, I feel you are as GUILTY as she is.. The baby cannot speak for itself.. Just do the right thing! Apparently if you are asking on here, you need to get a kick in the rear to put your head in the right place... Geez bahcatha returns: most moms and dads for that matter today are unfit in one way or another don't think so just take a look at the pathetic kids running around with no respect for anything Brandi Joi: CPS IS NOT THE ANSWER. CHILDREN OFTEN END UP IN DANGEROUS SITUATIONS THRU THEM. OFFER TO TAKE THE CHILD. IF SHE TREATS HER THAT BADLY SHE COULDNT WANT HER. DEEP_acheleg: i see my parents going thru the same things with my sisters kids- tho not nearly as bad as the case you posed. at the present time, my sisters irresponsibility caught up with her, and she had to moved in with my parents (the grandparents) because she let her mortgage go into foreclosure. i moved in as well, as i am able, and, moreso, WILLING to devote more time and attention to childcare than my sister (the mother) or either of my parents (the grandparents). i have had to step up personally, as their uncle, act as an example of a caring and responsible caregiver and put my sister in her place many times. things are seeming to get better, but only time will tell. Khalil6: I understand your concerns for your grandchild I think in this case you should do what best for your grand child. It you see your daughter not taking care of your grandchild you take care of her because that still your grandchild and if something bad happen to her while she living in your house you could be charge with the crime . ProphetofYAH: Is she married>>> and IF not, does the man know he has a child by her? And what is his views on this if any? And does he want to take over as a responsible parent. For the man has a big say so if he did not give her up... and maybe this needs to be addressed to him. This is the righteous thing to do.. shalom (Edited by ProphetofYAH) Saffir: I don't understand woman who raises daughters with bad parenting skills , assumes they ll do better ... I would like to listen the daughters point of view URgood: Best advice I would give is to "pray" You can give all the advice in the world but its never as good as from the man himself. NoDreamcatcher: Whose fault is it that she is this way. I suggest you offer to adopt the child and raise it properly or get serious with your daughter and teach her what is the proper way of raising the child. The child has done nothing to warrant being raised abusively. The children in these cases are always the ones that end up suffering the most. Shame, shame, shame | Parenting Chat Room 45 People Chatting Similar Conversations |