My daughter is a unfit mother what would you do? (Page 3)
devilsAdvocate2: The best result is the child in the care of family true ??? but i feel there is more to this story how did granma let it go so far to start with ?? social services in most countries are worse than living in the street we all can agree on that. The problem is alienation of the classes someone who might be more able to take care of this kid steeping up to the plate will be scorned and ridiculed by its family. Anyone who trys to help will be sued by the babies mother etc we have all seen it maybe it is time to let the powers that be just kill them all of ???
CourtGesture: If you have a good reason to believe that a child is being neglected or abused it is your civic duty to inform the proper authorities on the matter. However, this being said, the authorities will not be able to do much about it unless you have something concrete to offer them, such is the rule of law. Let them know of your concerns but do not hope for a quick solution because such is not always the case. If you wish to obtain custody of a child who you believe is at risk with their current custodian, the courts will require more then just your testimony. Evidence is essential. They will want proof that, not only is the child at risk where he/she is, but that you would, in fact be a better choice as guardian.
Robot_Fox: Someone needs to put that b!7ch unto some knowledge. Get her some help, if she doesnt shapen up her act call CPS, fvck!t call SUPERCPS.
quaran: my God!! Save that baby, give love to her, keep her save as much as you can. Do something before will be too late, I know you posted about it a long time ago, but I only see that now. Please..be the baby's angel, she needs you, she didn't ask to be born in this world, she needs your help now, just take care of her..please!
Syren83: you can certainly take her to court and fight for her. If the doctor feels like there is abuse here..based on the weight, development etc..then the doctor can take care of that by reporting it. However, if the baby is just meeting basic standards and the mother is showing even an oz of understanding and commitment to trying more for the baby there is nothing legal the doctors can do. I would try and take her to court. But I think i would first talk with your daughter. express to her your concerns and let her know that she needs a better diet..etc.
babygal: i wud never get cps involved i had them since 1981 and now i only got rid of them so once u get them involved u wud never see ur grandchild again im serious im not trying to scare u my life was hell now im free at last of them their twats beleive me plz cant u adopt ur grandchild u can get granny rights i no ive been there and won it all try it hun go court and longs u can prove that that child is safe with u and u wont let ur daughter see it then ull be givin full custody of that child untill she atleast becomes a better mother thats all the advice i can give x
dirty69: you tell her she can change you always put your children before you if you show this little blurb to your daughter I believe she can change
scifilover: It's been a year since this topic was started. Any updates? What did you do? What happened with the baby girl?
pixie99: u must take the child out of that situation, for ur daughters sake as much as for the childs welfare, ur daughter wil spend time in prison ( and i asume u wldnt want that) for neglect, worse of all cld u live with urself if ur grandchild died and u knew u cld have saved her?
Impossiblebeliever3: Well, if you think there is really a problem then you need to take this to the next step. Find out what is really going on. If you think that CPS is not seeing what you see then find proof of what you see. If you live with them this can be as easy as setting up a hidden camera to catch what is going on. However if you do not live with her you may need to take some things into account. For example, you said that the child is underweight. If all she is fed is what you described the child should be overweight. You can also take into account that the child may just be small, which happens quite often these days. I would just recommend you be sure before taking a child away from their mother.
OCD_OCD: Someone who would do that to a child does not deserve to have a child. If you can't take the baby, try to find someone who would like to adopt. Some people should not be parents. I'm sad to say it looks like your daughter is one of them. If you love your grandchild, intervene in any way possible.
ultimate sweetness: as a grandparent it is ur responsibility to ensure ur grandchilds well being if ur daughter can not she could b causing permanent physical or brain problems stepup do whats right for her and know that utimately thats the best thing u can do for ur daughter as well