How old is to old? (Page 3) me88kitty: whoooooooooooooooooo care actually you and your husband not old.just say im(you) young sweat heart????!!!!!! besides that, when u r over 70 then say im old woman.  YourMeringue: If he is worrying that he is too old...then he is just making himself old. In my opinion...you're only old when you are grumpy and worrying like that and believe that you can't do anything. 47(?) is defiantly not old.My dad is in his 60's and he goes swimming, hiking, cycling and also refuses to retire from his job...he is still looking after his students (Chemistry lecturer). Tell your man to stop being a bum and give you more kids....he will be glad when he REALLY is old and has so many young people around to talk to memberX: you can write till the next day...but considering young female after 30-years its ok yeah, but yesterday...bahahahahah  (Post deleted by staff )  Cage_Alien: yea he is too old. Who want their parents to die when you are younger than others? Don't be selfish and get kids when you are "too" old. around 30 is ok i think tho maybe . When it comes to getting children its def some ages that are too old cause ppl dont live forever its not about personality and that.. memberX: ...and plus when you go to take your children from school, other will ask them: "Is that you grandma"? PS.My moderate sarcasm is brilliant, cause it tell the truth, also I'm sexy and I know it !  sasah4u: Think its how you think about yourself..and they say ages is justa number ... but when we go older means theres some grace in it  spankdmonkey: cage alien you dont know what your talking about im in my mid 50s and yes im a grand parent 8 times .i have two kids younger then the grand kids, so their auntys are younger then them .All the baggers do not understand it is a individual thing for oneself .Being honest some people cannot cope because they feel old at 38 or 40 but some in their 60s are as fit as a fiddle .I squat a thousand pounds and bench press in the 400s so i can sure pick a baby up no problems , .Sasha4u is right it is how you feel about yourself ,If you look after yourself,stay active and stretch so you do not get ostarioperossis you will still, be agile flexible ,your whole life no matter what age ..Both my parents worked right into their 60s and my mum had me at 42 and my dad was much older 52 .and i was 22 when he died .Life has its twists and turns there is no set answers except to do what makes you happy what is good for you,isnt good for someone else but its your choice the original question is she wants to have a baby shes young enough hubby does not because he probably wants to spend his twilight years enjoying them with no responsability but a relationship is a partnership .She is entitled to another child ,and he is entitled to not want one either way someone will be happy and someone might not be .But once the child is born i sure he will love the child ,If i was her hubby i would do it ,But that is only me its both their choices Cage_Alien: yea i know what im talking about .. its not that fun I know to have parents that are as old as granparents. It's selfish to get kids when you are old. Its not if the person are fit n up to it its fact its a lot that are not up to things at all if they are too old when the kids grow up. How do you think yours kids will feel when you are 80 and you should have been 60?? sasah4u: hi spankdmonkey i know am right cause its how i think about myself and try keeping up with the times i guess .. but you also have to have a positive mind and not be among-st boring people humanisnothing: Yes, now he is not old enough to a one year old baby, 16 years later he wont be old enough too ,except his son will help him with his stick. (Post deleted by staff ) Comrade_: Yes it's risky for an older woman and the child (considering Down's Syndrome). But c'mon you have to think about the child, he/she wouldn't remain young forever you have to keep in mind that taking care of a child requires lots of energy and your mind has to be active too, esp when they bring home the maths homework. so if you want to have a kid at 40 + just note that you'll be in your 50's when the child is 10yrs and would you be able to handle the terrible teens at 50-60 years old?... memberX: Jack your pic,ahahahhahah... from distance looks like a Muslim female from Gaza... ahahahhahahhahahah | Parenting Chat Room 19 People Chatting Similar Conversations |
