Teenagers wanting to have children (Page 5) tylaaa: the sad part is, all kids think raising a kid is bout dressing them up and feeding them, theres so much more to raising a child anjie791: kids raising kids is not cool. I hope noone wants to intentionally have one before the age of 21. anjie791: You barely know who you are as a person when you're 21. You need time to grow as a person. Also a normal 21 year old would not be in an ideal financial situation. With age comes more financial stability and wisdom. I do not think it would be a good idea. Way too young gAbBY_sWeEt: I figure everyone has the right to make their own choices. I have a lot of friends who had kids before 18, yet thats on them. Although I did see alot struggle and everything. Let me put it like this to anyone that wants to have kids before 21. Enjoy your life have fun thats the time to make mistakes, and have fun but not have babies. I mean build memories that will be your best memories in life. Be able to look back and be like wow I had the time of my life as a teenager. Explore but be safe while doing it, everything has its timing and babies is one. If your going to have one cause you love the person your with wait till you both mature a lil, just cause ppl change, and if it is meant to be then you'll still be together in the future years. and tell your kids all the amazing things you guys did together, and to those who have kids already. Hey all I can say is all respects to you cause I know been a teen is one of the hardest times in your life and to add being a parent on top of it. Wow, keep up the good work, and know someones counting on you now. ;-) shaferkatie: I was 14 when I had my son. He is the best thing that's ever happened to me. That was 3 years ago. Now I'm 17 and Xavier will be 3 in a month. lindamomanwif: not a lot really planned out with life i had my son at 15 and he is the best thing that happen beside getting married to his dad and that been 18 year ago and we have had 2 more kids and life has its ups and downs but you just have to work on it all the time consummate_bimbo: As a young teenage mum (13) I found it daunting. It wasn't my choice but the are the loves pf my life. I wish you luck | Parenting Chat Room 24 People Chatting Similar Conversations |